I have never been kissed. So I can't comment on that.
So I have semi-news, tonight I opened up to another one of my Christian friends, about me supporting gay marriage. I have already told two, who I consider really big Christians, like close to extreme, and this third one is about the same. (One of them is a pro for family first, and even attempted to run as leader for one area or something in an election). Both have been understanding, and I think the other one is too.
I told him because I was telling him how when I first came to the church, I was nervous to tell anyone I liked Pokemon, you know because of Christians not liking the whole evolution thing, until I realized I was among Pokemon watchers and fans haha. So we talked about that, and I told him there were still things I was a bit nervous to tell them I supported or liked, so after reminding me I have been to that church for about 3 years now, and not one person has sneered, smeared or judged me, and most of them act like a family to me (The ones I really know or get along with), so I told them I supported gay marriage, because well we don't have a right to tell them who they can't marry, and if we try to legalize it when they aren't even Christians, it will cause even more of a negative view to Christianity, and he said he understood my points there. We had a small talk but he kinda had to be somewhere (I came home early, because he was dropping me off).
Apparently he already knew anyways, that I said bits and pieces over the years.. but anytime homosexuality comes up with my church friends, I say nothing. I have no idea how he knew that part lol. Might have been facebook and that ticker thing, that lets people see what you or others posted on someone's wall or liked pages (Like Gay Marriage Rights in Australia.. Guess that's a big clue haha).
Anyway the point is, I have 167 friends on Facebook, of about 100-120 of those people are Christians, the other half are old friends, and family, 2% are people I have never met or known, but somehow made it to my FB. Now people take me off randomly, both non and Christians, dunno if this is the reason, but chances are, they (Including about 4 Pastors, maybe 5) probably have seen me liking a page or commenting on the Gay rights one in the ticker section. If all of them have seen it, and not said a word about it, then I guess I don't know what I am scared of, why I hold back, when chances are, yes they will probably debate it with me, but they probably won't abandon their friendship to me, just because of that.
Not sure if I will go right out and say it, but I guess it makes me feel easier to tell them, well most of them who I consider friends, those who I am not sure even likes me, are another story, but those ones aren't really on my FB.
Yeah, well I just wanted to tell you guys that story, sorry for the long part.