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    Quote Originally Posted by Adalricus View Post
    I was gonna marry mommy and daddy.
    That is hilarious!!

    Okay, so I have a problem. I want to come out to my housemates but I dunno how to. It has been a year living together, and I have been avoiding doing it becasue I kept thinking that I would move out soon and they did not have to know. But as it turns out I am staying in this house for three more years and I can't afford to not have them know anymore. I want to enjoy my life being gay. I am scared as hell to think how they might react. I shouldn't be though. i am a grown man, and should be able to do such things without making a big mess out of it. I am sad!

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    @Shac it's okay to be nervous. Just build up as much courage as you can and have a heart-heart with them. They should be fine with it and supportive and if not....then they suck


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    have any of you had an attraction to a specific member of the opposite sex (if you're gay), or to someone of the same sex (if straight)?

    Yes, actually. I have a crush on one of my best friends. She's like exactly what I like in a guy, but in a female body. Dark hair, lots of tattoos... But she has a boyfriend and so do I. lol. If anything were to happen it would be so awkward.

    She's one of the VERY few girls in recent years that I've even found remotely attractive.

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    I can't get over this one guy. i thought I was but, my friend said he was talking to him, and they never talk, ever. and I wanted to know what they were talking about, and he wouldn't say, and i feel insainly jealous and want to know what they were talking about.
    I feel like Hannah Montana. she could do stuff like this, right?


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    Aww don't get too jealous.
    Cause when you are jealous you jump to conclusions, and when you jump to conclusions you do stupid things, and when you do stupid things you go to jail.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryubane View Post
    Umm idk what the current conversation is here cuz I haven't posted in forever, but I just had to tell somebody.

    I HAZ BOYFRIEND!!!!!
    I'm the most jealous person here right now :/

    But yea, congrats

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    Congratz, Ryu.
    I am just overreacting again, as always.


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    Happy Thanksgiving everyone :c

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    Spawned by a recent debate....

    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?


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    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Spawned by a recent debate....

    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?
    Well the word "f@g" is offensive anyway. Even when people call something "gay" and they mean it's stupid it's still offensive. People shouldn't associate being gay with being stupid.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryubane View Post
    Well the word "f@g" is offensive anyway. Even when people call something "gay" and they mean it's stupid it's still offensive. People shouldn't associate being gay with being stupid.
    This. I also feel that way about words that have a negative origin being used as a term of endearment like the N word and any variation of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Spawned by a recent debate....

    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?
    I do feel a little offended, even though i know they don't mean it in a mean way


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    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Spawned by a recent debate....

    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?
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    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?

    Yeah, I would take offense to that. If you were black and someone used the N word to describe something they didn't like, wouldn't you be offended? It's pretty much along the same lines.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryubane View Post
    Umm idk what the current conversation is here cuz I haven't posted in forever, but I just had to tell somebody.

    I HAZ BOYFRIEND!!!!!
    So... JEALOUS!

    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?
    I'm not offended. But that's because in my mind, there's no connection between "faggy/fagoot" and "homosexual."

    I'm sorta like Kairne (he said this a couple pages back) in that I tend to take words too literally as a means of retaliation. A ****** is a bunch of sticks, gay is happy (although I do use that to identify myself instead of other terms, but I guess in my head I've learned to separate the different meanings of the word) and so on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fused View Post
    I'm not offended. But that's because in my mind, there's no connection between "faggy/fagoot" and "homosexual."
    I'd be the same way. If someone calls me a faggot, then I would be offended. But when someone says that something is faggy I don't take offence, because fag does not mean gay.

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    Gay actually means happy and a f@g is a bundle of sticks. So when someone calls you a "gay @$s f@ggot" they really mean you're a happy donkey bundle of sticks


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryubane View Post
    Gay actually means happy and a f@g is a bundle of sticks. So when someone calls you a "gay @$s f@ggot" they really mean you're a happy donkey bundle of sticks
    Oh that made me smile


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    My thing is when you start using a variation of a word in a negative way, those who don't understand the difference like impressionable children tend to associate the word and all it's variations in a negative way. I ran into this issue with my nephew when some kids at his school were talking about gay people in a negative way and he came hold saying he hates gay people. No one in my family has ever expressed those sentiments and my sister, his mother is very pro-gay rights so it bothered me. We talked to him about it but people don't understand what things like that does to impressionable youth. It may not offend you but that doesn't mean it's okay.

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    The word "queer" really annoys me more than any other gay-related words. Seeing as the word actually originally means "weird" or "strange" or in some cases "mentally deranged" (I'm quoting an online dictionary here), it gets to me when people use it in a homophobic context; basically implying that gay people are abnormal, or there's something wrong with them in some way.

    I was told by my old RS teacher that Gay is actually an acronym for "Good.As.You." Though yeah, Gay does actualy mean happy.

    In the UK, F@ggots are a traditional dish consisting of cuts of pork...
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    The usage of these words are totally out of control as by now. It's okay to say: "Hey, I'm gay" as you're indicating your "tastes", but people tend to think in the wrong way. Most of them see the word "gay" as an offensive word, instead of just associating the term with a preference.

    The same happens with the commonly known slang terms that derive from gay (f@g, which comes from the UK, queer which means "odd" in some way, and etcetera) All of them are derogative words and don't have a sense.

    I still think that the ignorance of the people is what contributes these kind of things to happen. If they were smarter, or had a higher IQ, wouldn't be paying too much attention to other's lives. That could be seen especially in my country, Venezuela, located in South America. Land of what-you-may-call Homophobia, and since I'm gay, I wouldn't even mind moving later on.

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    Actually, the origin of "f@g" is a old English term meaning a small bundle of sticks to be used for kindling. When someone calls you that, it basicially means they want to burn you. So, yeah, I do take it as an offense.
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    Yes original meanings are important, but words evolve.

    And IMO if words offend someone they should not be used.


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    Well, fag as a term for homosexuals does originate from when "witches" were burned. A witch would have her own stake on the pyre, but the gays that were burned were just put in the pile of wood. Just another fag.

    However, with the same logic, avatarsokia, calling someone "muffin" or "cupcake" or "honey" would mean you want to ingest them, and calling someone "chipmunk" means you want them to sing to earn you a fortune.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpeedSuicune View Post
    have any of you had an attraction to a specific member of the opposite sex (if you're gay), or to someone of the same sex (if straight)?
    If Cheryl Cole was on my bed naked with her legs apart I wouldn't say no!

    I did genuinely have crushes on the opposite sex back in the day and I did quite a bit with girls before I came out. I do still occasionally make-out with girls when I'm drunk, though I've never been the one to initiate it. I am definitely a gay male, but I can still appreciate a gorgeous woman.


    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Do you take offence when someone calls something "faggy" when they really mean stupid? If so do you think you are being oversensitive?
    I wasn't aware "faggy" was an actual term. And to be honest it sounds completely stupid. I don't take offence when someone says "fag" or "that's gay", though. Don't get me wrong, it's not something I encourage, but it's not something I get worked up over either.

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