right now my only crush is my ps3
its not as good as a real person but it'll do until i find someone to date or have a crush on
However I can see how this situation can be a little tricky because you already have established a good friendship and if you tell him your true feelings and it isn't a mutual thing he may distance himself from you, or you may enter a relationship that becomes faulty down the road causing you to break up along with destroying the friendship you've established.
So, in my opinion I would take things really slowly and not make any brash decisions. Keep talking about the things you've been talking about, and if you feel comfortable with it add something just a little "flirty" in there like once or twice to see how he reacts. (don't overdo it though or he could take notice quite easily)
If a relationship truly doesn't appear to be something he's interested in, try to distance yourself just a little bit so that you can try not to get too attached to him.
I'm just speaking from experience here, and I personally feel that he is at least slightly interested in you. So keep up what you're doing and just be careful.
I like this thread. It is like a portable DR. Phil that I can just view on my cellphone whenever I feel Down.
And for the topic: I'd say og for it. If he's really a friend, He'll understand
Oh? Why's that? I rather fancy his way of trying to understand and deal With other Peoples problems. And he sometimes come up With some rather good advice. Same gorw for Oprah
Nah, it's really interesting when you interest in how other People act around messed up People. lol
And golf makes me want to claw out my eyeballs and strangle someone With them, somehow
do you guys have any plans now that its summer vacation?
"Now that it's summer vacation"? Well, I work until August 20th when I start at college
Is it bad that I have trouble developing feelings for people? i'm 18 and bi and it's been a while since i felt anything for anybody more than just a crush. sometimes i worry that i'll end up lonely just because i can't seem to find anybody i'm even interested in. i hope somebody can relate kuz i hate feeling lonely even though i'm ok being single for now.
Originally Posted by Thrive
I mean. My current crush has been a crush since mid-March and we've still just remained very close friends.
But I myself, have trouble developing sexual attraction to people. Usually not thinking about things in that general sense. So I do understand your issue.
My advice, coming from his side?
DOn't pressure him. Try to understand him. At times, you will be frustrated that you won't be able to do some things because he is closeted, and that frustration will endanger your relationship. Just remember that he will feel even worse than you do, for he will feel guilty for putting you under his own problems and having you carry his burden as well.
Be understanding and talk about things. Never let any problem you have with having to keep him closeted and being (overtly) discreet boil up.
I'm pretty sure there was something else I had to answer, but I forget. Sorry guys if I accidentally ignored you.
Rough day...spent most the day as a friends house. He husban left her years ago and she only had her kids. But now the kids are gone and she feels useless now. She's been talking about talking to a therapist or going into a Metal Ward for suicidal thoughts :/
Well then welcome to the club. Just our little dainty corner of angst and whatever.
So anyways how is everyone as of late? I guess my hormones are kicking in badly even though my brain's telling them to shut up. I should be more focused on writing and working on my Honors English summer program, but instead all I can think of is being in a relationship. I guess that's how the typical teenager is after, besides I procrastinate pretty badly as well...
I look sugary and sweet, but in reality I'm just hollow and rotten.
You know that moment when you see two or more of your exs talking about you? Had that today at my parents 25th Anniversary party, still don't know who in their right mind invited them or had the idea to put them together >.>
Clever parents, Shadow. lol
Well, my life is actually going somewhere. I got accepted into a one year study at a college, I have a well paid summer job, my depressions all most gone now, and I have a boyfriend. I'm really happy lately too. lol