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    Pretty much every bi/gay guy I know shares this sentiment, kanima. It doesn't help that a lot of the stereotypes gays and bis have to put up with were not only born from but are perpetuated by those really, really sassy gay guys (think if Taylor Oakley and Joey Gracefa had a lovechild that was even worst than them both) that honestly make us all look bad.
    Especially when a lot of them use their sassyness as an excuse to just be plain rude.

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    These are al valid points.

    I will admit, it's one of the reasons I don't like go to gaybars or whatever I mean.

    Who likes sweeping generalisations?

    I do. It's a bad thing.

    Have I said all this already? Anyway,

    yes. The b*tchy attitude right?

    Yr introduced to them, and they look you up and down, and turn away. And it's like.. Where is the politeness lol.

    A guy I knew once said that

    probably due to these people, that the gay community is now the antithesis of what it originally set out to be.

    But there are communities within communities.. Some are nice.. And there are sassy flamboyant gay guys who are like, real nice. But yeah. All that stuff. Also racism. So much racism. So many hairdressers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by melonjaywalk View Post
    Even though it's the club owner's

    decision, I just want you to know

    that

    'straight' allies do so much good for their LGBT friends. Seriously. You guys rule.
    thanks! ^-^
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    It is nice to see that we have support, yes.

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    I was like that in the past. I believe I was in middle school still and I did not want any gay guy talking to me in public because I feared I'd get picked on. But, I matured and I don't care what people say about me and my friends, well I little bit I do. ._. The only thing is I wouldn't want them around my family since they're very homophobic and I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if they got hurt because of me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tuskie Tyrant Yoko Kurama View Post
    I was like that in the past. I believe I was in middle school still and I did not want any gay guy talking to me in public because I feared I'd get picked on. But, I matured and I don't care what people say about me and my friends, well I little bit I do. ._. The only thing is I wouldn't want them around my family since they're very homophobic and I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if they got hurt because of me.
    i know how you feel. but as i grew up i realized that all the stereotypes were false. my dad is very homophobic he even thinks that AIDS came into existince as a result of homosexuality. it is aactualy a natural part of a mokeys body. so basicaly, aids exists because some guy tried knocking up an animal while visiting africa.
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    Quote Originally Posted by melonjaywalk View Post
    I'd like to hear more about this.

    It's

    such an interesting topic I think maybe.
    It really isn't. I hated myself for years because I was gay and I'm still frustrated as hell because of it. It just makes life a lot harder and my life is already hard enough without needing sexuality and intimacy matters thrown in.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    Well, more confessions. lol
    I'm a homophobe towards the stereotypical sassy gays.
    I don't know why, but their attitude piss me off Lol
    That doesn't make you a homophobe lmfao.

    Quote Originally Posted by niedude View Post
    Pretty much every bi/gay guy I know shares this sentiment, kanima. It doesn't help that a lot of the stereotypes gays and bis have to put up with were not only born from but are perpetuated by those really, really sassy gay guys (think if Taylor Oakley and Joey Gracefa had a lovechild that was even worst than them both) that honestly make us all look bad.
    Especially when a lot of them use their sassyness as an excuse to just be plain rude.
    I can't say that I do. The way they perpetuate stereotypes is sort of annoying but at the same time I can't be bothered to care. They're their own human beings, and I can't hate them because they talk and act a certain way? That seems terribly shallow. That and I have to be thankful to stereotypical gay people who actually made society realize that being gay was not a mental illness and whatnot.

    Being rude is another thing altogether.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KyuremFreeze View Post
    thanks! ^-^
    Welcome!

    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    It is nice to see that we have support, yes.
    I agree
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    can i join am bi and also a uke
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    It really isn't. I hated myself for years because I was gay and I'm still frustrated as hell because of it. It just makes life a lot harder and my life is already hard enough without needing sexuality and intimacy matters thrown in.
    Wellllllll that's the part that's interesting. Okay maybe not. What I mean is.. Just.. When you / I say 'Yes I'm gay but don't go to gay bars for _whatever reason_'.. Is it because you / I genuinely don't like the 'scene' for legitimate reasons or.. Because we're internally homophobic and at an extreme level, just don't like gay people, even if that includes ourselves, like, unconsciously, out of shame or something?

    I think we all know that it's actually the former reason.

    But..

    It's hard to explain to people,

    sometimes.

    I'm sure I'm not the only guy who's had to argue for his case that they're not internally homophobic, and that there are just parts of the uh.. 'subculture' that are legitimately just *bad*.

    Right?

    Why do so many gay guys refer to eachother as 'girls'. I am not a girl. Please do not call me that. No I don't use grindr. Having to say things like this all the time..

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    Why do so many gay guys refer to eachother as 'girls'. I am not a girl. Please do not call me that. No I don't use grindr. Having to say things like this all the time..
    I have no idea, all I know is I can't be around those "types" more then 10 mins without one doing something to piss me off.
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    soo... hows it going people?
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    Quote Originally Posted by KyuremFreeze View Post
    soo... hows it going people?
    50/50 same old crap mixed with a few new things. Seems my BF is a tad bit clingy, didn't let me out of his site today.
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    Confession Corner
    I am drunk as balls, (yay i'm finally 21 loll) so tke what I say with grain f salt
    I don't fel lik i'll amount to much. i'm in my 3rd year of comun college andve gotten D's an F's my entir tmie. my parentsn don't giv me any other option tho. it's either go 2 colleg or ur a bum in their eyes, and I hate it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AbFabTrainerKira View Post
    Confession Corner
    I am drunk as balls, (yay i'm finally 21 loll) so tke what I say with grain f salt
    I don't fel lik i'll amount to much. i'm in my 3rd year of comun college andve gotten D's an F's my entir tmie. my parentsn don't giv me any other option tho. it's either go 2 colleg or ur a bum in their eyes, and I hate it.
    Wow. That is like..

    Hillarious haha.

    When I'm in that state I can at least spell properly but it's

    probably not as funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by melonjaywalk View Post
    Wow. That is like..

    Hillarious haha.

    When I'm in that state I can at least spell properly but it's

    probably not as funny.
    Oh dear god, why did I post that?
    Anyway, it is true. I don't wanna go to college anymore, but they're forcing me
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    Quote Originally Posted by AbFabTrainerKira View Post
    Oh dear god, why did I post that?
    Anyway, it is true. I don't wanna go to college anymore, but they're forcing me
    just tell them. whats the point of doing something you dont want to do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by KyuremFreeze View Post
    just tell them. whats the point of doing something you dont want to do?
    They're conservatives. If I don't go to college and make a name for myself, they consider me a bum. Even though I've been busting my balls at a job for 3 years with no signs of leaving.
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    Dear lord. More peeps posting when they're drunk. Yippeeee////shot.

    what did i just read

    ANYWAYS
    My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
    Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
    And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
    The world sucks -_-

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    Quote Originally Posted by FrozenConstellation View Post

    My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
    Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
    And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
    The world sucks -_-
    what is the world coming to... religion cant "reform" a gay preson, nor can a pychologist.just stay strong, my friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FrozenConstellation View Post
    Dear lord. More peeps posting when they're drunk. Yippeeee////shot.

    what did i just read

    ANYWAYS
    My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
    Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
    And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
    The world sucks -_-
    They should trust you to make your own decisions, rather than checking up on you.

    There's no way to 'reform' someone, you're either gay or you're not and they should accept you for who you are.

    I hope that they come to see that there's nothing wrong with you




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    Quote Originally Posted by FrozenConstellation View Post
    Dear lord. More peeps posting when they're drunk. Yippeeee////shot.

    what did i just read

    ANYWAYS
    My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
    Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
    And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
    The world sucks -_-
    My dad took me to a place like that for a month or two...it was his money, I figure. he still thinks there's something I can do to 'change,' or whatever, but we don't discuss it. Anyways, while I was being 'counseled' by the guy, it sort of cemented my lack of faith in humanity, because the guy is married, and has a daughter, but he's not attracted to women, and all...I mean, he's not miserable, and now that I'm more open towards religion, I can see that celibacy is a thing which could be respected, but it still was foreign to me. Anyway, just as it was his life, it's your's too. Just talk with the guy or whatever, and after a few months, I'd assume your parents will get tired of paying a hundred dollars every other week to 'fix' you (counseling is so expensive, you don't even know)

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    Confession Corner

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    They see things differently, like they think being bi/les/gay is just a mindset or something >.>
    But since they are convinced I'm a pathological liar I suppose I'll just sit through 2 hours and act like a mute :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by FrozenConstellation View Post
    They see things differently, like they think being bi/les/gay is just a mindset or something >.>
    But since they are convinced I'm a pathological liar I suppose I'll just sit through 2 hours and act like a mute :/
    Quote Originally Posted by FrozenConstellation View Post
    Dear lord. More peeps posting when they're drunk. Yippeeee////shot.

    what did i just read

    ANYWAYS
    My parents have this anti-homosexual attitude and they were snooping through my computer. and found stuffs.
    Stuffs. (namely conversation with ,my friend that i came out to)
    And now they're sending me to a pychologist to "reform" me (wtf)
    The world sucks -_-
    Isn't the first I've heard of this, some of it is basic-ed off religion. Some believe "God" created up to be straight, and that the "Devil" is behind us being Bi/Les/Gay. I don't mean to bash anybody's religion or anything. But, there are people who take the stuff way to far. Such as my family believes if your gay in anyway, its a sign of the "Devil" and they throw you out right then and there. And their are churches out there that won't allow Gays in them. I for one don't believe in religion, as for "God" and the "Devil", I always seen it as if you believe in one, you believe in the other. Reason, you talk about both in church. Anyways, back to the subject...the mute thing won't help much. It'll just make the sessions longer and longer. All I know to do is, lie lie lie and get the hell out of there...those people will but you in the nut house.
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