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    Quote Originally Posted by Beirut View Post
    Hello to everybody new!

    Ah. It seems we're talking about relationships? Well the boy I like has been talking to me a lot more and he keeps sending me stuff saying 'I heard this and thought of you.'. He's really great and I'd love to tell him how I feel but at the same time we're best friends and he has told everyone in our group of friends that he is not interested in a relationship. It's quite troublesome to be honest.

    I'm actually vacationing in a large city right now and he's texted me every day asking how I am and usually talking to me for hours at a time until either of us needt go. Usually about really dorky stuff but it feels nice to have someone thinking after you every day.

    So my true issue is how much I adore this guy but how worried I am to tell him my true feelings. Mostly because of our amazing friendship.
    awww this is really sweet <3
    do you know his sexuality though? if so then you should wait for the perfect moment(which hopefully will come soon) to tell him ^w^

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    Relationships? I have a crush but no sure if he's straight or what. He sometimes act like he likes me in the same way, then others he pays no mind to me.
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    right now my only crush is my ps3
    its not as good as a real person but it'll do until i find someone to date or have a crush on

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beirut View Post
    Hello to everybody new!

    Ah. It seems we're talking about relationships? Well the boy I like has been talking to me a lot more and he keeps sending me stuff saying 'I heard this and thought of you.'. He's really great and I'd love to tell him how I feel but at the same time we're best friends and he has told everyone in our group of friends that he is not interested in a relationship. It's quite troublesome to be honest.

    I'm actually vacationing in a large city right now and he's texted me every day asking how I am and usually talking to me for hours at a time until either of us needt go. Usually about really dorky stuff but it feels nice to have someone thinking after you every day.

    So my true issue is how much I adore this guy but how worried I am to tell him my true feelings. Mostly because of our amazing friendship.
    Based upon how he says he isn't interested in a relationship, however he likes speaking to you that much about topics mostly concerning things that have to do with you, I would guess he is probably just lying about what he is telling people and may be interested in a relationship towards you.

    However I can see how this situation can be a little tricky because you already have established a good friendship and if you tell him your true feelings and it isn't a mutual thing he may distance himself from you, or you may enter a relationship that becomes faulty down the road causing you to break up along with destroying the friendship you've established.

    So, in my opinion I would take things really slowly and not make any brash decisions. Keep talking about the things you've been talking about, and if you feel comfortable with it add something just a little "flirty" in there like once or twice to see how he reacts. (don't overdo it though or he could take notice quite easily)

    If a relationship truly doesn't appear to be something he's interested in, try to distance yourself just a little bit so that you can try not to get too attached to him.

    I'm just speaking from experience here, and I personally feel that he is at least slightly interested in you. So keep up what you're doing and just be careful.

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    I like this thread. It is like a portable DR. Phil that I can just view on my cellphone whenever I feel Down.
    And for the topic: I'd say og for it. If he's really a friend, He'll understand

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    I like this thread. It is like a portable DR. Phil that I can just view on my cellphone whenever I feel Down.
    And for the topic: I'd say og for it. If he's really a friend, He'll understand
    Dr. Phil?

    *Walks away*

    Yeah, I can't stand him >.<
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    Oh? Why's that? I rather fancy his way of trying to understand and deal With other Peoples problems. And he sometimes come up With some rather good advice. Same gorw for Oprah

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    Oh? Why's that? I rather fancy his way of trying to understand and deal With other Peoples problems. And he sometimes come up With some rather good advice. Same gorw for Oprah
    Keyword: Sometimes

    Let me just state I don't like Phil, Oprah, Anderson, or Harvey. Those type of shows bore me more then watching golf.
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    Nah, it's really interesting when you interest in how other People act around messed up People. lol
    And golf makes me want to claw out my eyeballs and strangle someone With them, somehow

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    do you guys have any plans now that its summer vacation?

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    "Now that it's summer vacation"? Well, I work until August 20th when I start at college

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azurewing View Post
    do you guys have any plans now that its summer vacation?
    Been in summer since 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    Nah, it's really interesting when you interest in how other People act around messed up People. lol
    And golf makes me want to claw out my eyeballs and strangle someone With them, somehow
    My sister's a nut job so yea.......
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    Quote Originally Posted by Azurewing View Post
    awww this is really sweet <3
    do you know his sexuality though? if so then you should wait for the perfect moment(which hopefully will come soon) to tell him ^w^
    I'm a female actually! I'm here as a supporter (or Heteroromantic Asexual.) ouo. But I do know he is straight, due to his chats with us in the group of friends.

    @If U Seek Amy; thank you for your advice! I'll certainly keep that in mind!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beirut View Post
    I'm a female actually! I'm here as a supporter (or Heteroromantic Asexual.) ouo. But I do know he is straight, due to his chats with us in the group of friends.

    @If U Seek Amy; thank you for your advice! I'll certainly keep that in mind!
    oh, my apologies, i did not know that

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    Is it bad that I have trouble developing feelings for people? i'm 18 and bi and it's been a while since i felt anything for anybody more than just a crush. sometimes i worry that i'll end up lonely just because i can't seem to find anybody i'm even interested in. i hope somebody can relate kuz i hate feeling lonely even though i'm ok being single for now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by weavile606 View Post
    Is it bad that I have trouble developing feelings for people? i'm 18 and bi and it's been a while since i felt anything for anybody more than just a crush. sometimes i worry that i'll end up lonely just because i can't seem to find anybody i'm even interested in. i hope somebody can relate kuz i hate feeling lonely even though i'm ok being single for now.
    I know the feeling. Although my issue isn't exactly the same. I've only ever been in one relationship and it didn't go over or end well. Not to mention he wasn't exactly a pleasant guy. Before that, I had never experienced romantic attraction to anyone, other than some of the attractive faces I saw on tv. I still have a little bit of that issue today, but I do develope romantic feelings now, I just don't EXPRESS them. Especially because most are crushes and I'm never sure if that person feels the same.

    I mean. My current crush has been a crush since mid-March and we've still just remained very close friends.

    But I myself, have trouble developing sexual attraction to people. Usually not thinking about things in that general sense. So I do understand your issue.

    Quote Originally Posted by Azurewing View Post
    oh, my apologies, i did not know that
    Ah its all good! I get it a lot actually. It's rather tricky to determine gender online without going to check. (at least in my opinion it is.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by weavile606 View Post
    Is it bad that I have trouble developing feelings for people? i'm 18 and bi and it's been a while since i felt anything for anybody more than just a crush. sometimes i worry that i'll end up lonely just because i can't seem to find anybody i'm even interested in. i hope somebody can relate kuz i hate feeling lonely even though i'm ok being single for now.
    i think its pretty normal, i mean like you said, so far you havent find anyone you're interested it, give it sometime and hopefully mr. or mrs. right will appear ^w^
    Quote Originally Posted by Beirut View Post
    Ah its all good! I get it a lot actually. It's rather tricky to determine gender online without going to check. (at least in my opinion it is.)
    thank you ^w^ and yeah its sometimes hard

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    Well, I hate to combo-break the conversation but.. I kinda need advice. lol
    So: The guy I like likes me back, and we're now dating. But he haven't come out to his parents yet, and is a bit scared of that. How should I act? If I'm supposed to at all?
    If I ever date this guy I'm getting close to (and the chances are somewhat high) then he will be in the exact same situation you are in.
    My advice, coming from his side?
    DOn't pressure him. Try to understand him. At times, you will be frustrated that you won't be able to do some things because he is closeted, and that frustration will endanger your relationship. Just remember that he will feel even worse than you do, for he will feel guilty for putting you under his own problems and having you carry his burden as well.
    Be understanding and talk about things. Never let any problem you have with having to keep him closeted and being (overtly) discreet boil up.

    I'm pretty sure there was something else I had to answer, but I forget. Sorry guys if I accidentally ignored you.

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    Rough day...spent most the day as a friends house. He husban left her years ago and she only had her kids. But now the kids are gone and she feels useless now. She's been talking about talking to a therapist or going into a Metal Ward for suicidal thoughts :/
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    yoyoyo i feel like i should join this club, represent the letter B and stuff

    thanks adam you da best
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    Well then welcome to the club. Just our little dainty corner of angst and whatever.

    So anyways how is everyone as of late? I guess my hormones are kicking in badly even though my brain's telling them to shut up. I should be more focused on writing and working on my Honors English summer program, but instead all I can think of is being in a relationship. I guess that's how the typical teenager is after, besides I procrastinate pretty badly as well...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cinna View Post
    yoyoyo i feel like i should join this club, represent the letter B and stuff
    BB!!!!! Welcome aboard. arrr
    Quote Originally Posted by Lost™ View Post
    Well then welcome to the club. Just our little dainty corner of angst and whatever.
    LOL dainty? xD speak for yourself

    Life as of late has been confusing but good too. I have a really bad migraine though, and wanna go to the concert in the park tonight....but I'm hurting pretty bad. lol


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    You know that moment when you see two or more of your exs talking about you? Had that today at my parents 25th Anniversary party, still don't know who in their right mind invited them or had the idea to put them together >.>

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    Clever parents, Shadow. lol
    Well, my life is actually going somewhere. I got accepted into a one year study at a college, I have a well paid summer job, my depressions all most gone now, and I have a boyfriend. I'm really happy lately too. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kanima View Post
    Clever parents, Shadow. lol
    Well, my life is actually going somewhere. I got accepted into a one year study at a college, I have a well paid summer job, my depressions all most gone now, and I have a boyfriend. I'm really happy lately too. lol
    Congratz and tell Shadow he can thank me for that happening to him lol

    As for me, just got a new job, BF, and new car. So I'm good right now.
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