The Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance Club

[Willow's Tara]

Maybe, I dunno, I mean then where is she? I am 24 and never been on a single date, it does suck watching happy couples, or the fact I got friends who are 19-21 and already getting married (Christian friends), or people who have had dozens dates.

DJ- I have been rejected plenty of times, I am able to handle it, but I still wonder sometimes, it's just two of my friends had mentioned they don't believe (Actually one seems to refer it as fact) there's a someone out there for everyone, and there's always the possibility of being alone forever, and it just got me thinking maybe it's true aleast for me.

Ada- I don't know, it does sound like it could work but how could you know if they don't have interest in you? Or that they will say yes or no if you don't ask them out, they may still say yes even if prior it didn't seem like they did.


As for the topic.. I don't know, I have been in love and I used to be someone who was one of those gooey sappy romantics, who loved Valentines but in the last few years, I dunno, it just wore off (And I am even bitter about Valentines now)

[Lost Requiem]

DJ- That's true, trust me. I had a crush on a girl in fourth grade, and I kinds kissed her, but she didn't mind for some reason, thoughts? Also, she was older than me...

WT- Okay, if I ever brought my Internet Oka-San to this sight * Thinks of FanFiction Chaos* she would agree in me that sounds like love deprivation. Have you by chance tried dating sites?

[Sir DJ]

WT - Wow.....maybe candlereaper is right. Try speed dating, haves friends set you up or a dating site or something. I'm not saying go and try to find love for yourself, just get out there and help realise that you aren't the only one out there looking for love. There isn't just 1 person in the world for you, that's just plain silly. Now put a smile on that face and try to cheer up you're just going through a lonely grieving stage

[The Arceus Delusion]

I've cut so many guys out of my life that I sometimes wonder if I missed my chance with actual love. :/

[7 tyranitars]

You guys. I think I might have the biggest balls in the clan. It's really not that hard asking someone out. The worse thing they could say is no. And if you're worried because if the embarrassment of rejection, then donut in private and talk to them about it. If they're genuine, they'll respect that.



Omg. All of this. No less. It's just the best thing ever. Your heart skips a beat, you can be down, and their name, or their smile, anything. Just, anything. Makes it better.

Well for me it is mainly because most girls I like/liked are also my friends and I don't want to ruin a friendship XD.

[emogirl]

I almost feel bad that I've never had a dating problem, especially with asking someone out. That girl I'd be with if I was with a girl...we definitely told each other xD we even walked around the park one day holding hands and telling emotional stories of our pasts :3 It was beautiful.

And love, it has so many different meanings because it's...it's like adrenaline or fear, provoked by different things within everyone. For me, love is being with that person you can't stop thinking about, even when you're right by them, that person who makes you feel safe, that you can tell anything to, and most importantly, you're not afraid to be with that person, and let other people know you're with that person, no matter the situation.

[Kingsley]

can I join? It says I've already posted in this thread but idr :P

[Willow's Tara]

Candle- Yeah but they don't seem to work out, on one sight called OkCupid I have tried, sending messages and such but never got a response back, so basically don't even use that site anymore.

DJ- Like above, I have tried, actually like two years ago I tried EHarmony, you know the one that matches you up with the closest girl by percentage... It said they couldn't find any matches >.>, I don't see any places to try speeddating, there was one event in the Coffee Club a while ago but I didn't have a way in getting there.

Kingsley- Sure welcome!



What's interesting about the girl who rejected me, we did continue to talk like 10mins after she said no, so our friendship wasn't ruined or awkward (Although I saw her on Saturday, for some reason she looked even more prettier then the week before, which is really annoying when you try to move on. But we still get along, I saw her on Sunday as well)

[AlexandriaTheMixed]

Well for me it is mainly because most girls I like/liked are also my friends and I don't want to ruin a friendship XD.

Well, you're taking the relationship further. You're dating her. And if she rejects you, and if she's sane, will get over it.

[Elysian]

@Willow - It is quite obvious who likes me and who dosen't, and by not making any moves, I save myself from constant rejections. I tried confessing my feelings to someone once, and practically got laughed in te face. I will never allow such pain to bother me again.

[AlexandriaTheMixed]

@Willow - It is quite obvious who likes me and who dosen't, and by not making any moves, I save myself from constant rejections. I tried confessing my feelings to someone once, and practically got laughed in te face. I will never allow such pain to bother me again.

You can't allow one bad experience to change that though. That's like choking on air and never wanting to breath again. Except it's not as vital.

[Sir DJ]

I'm so glad I'm more dominant than passive/submissive. When I get rejected that just makes me try harder. You can't give up on something as important as love. Just be brave and live on, be better next time and succeed.

Plus I have amazing charm, it's one of my best qualities ^____^

[Willow's Tara]

Ada- Wow, I never had anyone laugh at me for that. About 4-5, actually maybe 7 girls that I asked out never laughed at me or ridiculed me (One of them was pretty much a stranger, long story).

Only one girl was the coldest, she never laughed but that would you know, require talking to me because of the secret admirer thing (People who remember 06 will know what I mean). And she almost destroyed everything, everything I was and would have been. I think the church had slowly built that back up, the trust, caring, possible love etc, no longer afraid to ask someone out. (Worst part is she ruined me able to love that well. And trust friends, even my closest friends sometimes I wonder if they really are my friends, all because she pretended when she wasn't)

DJ- It's just hard not to give up, not that I was in love with this girl, but I was afraid of falling in love with her, before I had asked her out I had some thought that involved marrying her, it was good to do it before I fell for her, that's a road I do not want to take. Maybe the girl I fell in love with in 2002 was different and she didn't care how much I loved her, she didn't reject me that badly. It was 06 girl that ruined it for me (I refuse to say I was in love with her, I don't know what that was anymore)

[Elysian]

Well, I'm probably just being overdramatic with it. I'm only 18 though, so I have plenty of time to waste on love

[Sir DJ]

No offence WT, but you need to stop falling for people that don't realise what a wonderful person you are. Just it slow for a bit and let love find you.

And yes 18 is too young to be concluding you will die alone (as is 24 btw).

[7 tyranitars]

Some news: Scotland is planning to legalise Same sex marriage soon. It will become the first part of the UK to have it legalised.

[emogirl]

Some news: Scotland is planning to legalise Same sex marriage soon. It will become the first part of the UK to have it legalised.

Woo! I'm always glad when places legalize SSM.
I'm always like, Some faith in humanity has been restored!

[7 tyranitars]

Woo! I'm always glad when places legalize SSM.
I'm always like, Some faith in humanity has been restored!

Hah Ikr I feel the same way.

[FlyShyGuy]

Some news: Scotland is planning to legalise Same sex marriage soon. It will become the first part of the UK to have it legalised.

Hopefully England and the rest of the UK will follow suit soon. (it's also pretty interesting that Scotland is the first place in the UK to do so ?? )
They're facing strong opposition from the church, but this is still very encouraging

[7 tyranitars]

Hopefully England and the rest of the UK will follow suit soon. (it's also pretty interesting that Scotland is the first place in the UK to do so ?? )
They're facing strong opposition from the church, but this is still very encouraging

Yes and no, in 2010 England already anounced plans to legalise it after the 2015 election. Scotland follows their lead, yet they will most likely have it legalised it sooner.