The Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance Club

[LordLucario21]

Just go up and ask them? It can't hurt you in the long run to ask them.

[Demon Kitsune Yoko Kurama]

Thank you.

Now, onto your question, you may not like my answer, because it may seem weird. But, here goes, you have to watch what they look at, see if he looks at guys more than girls. You can't assume he's gay from the beginning results, you have to do this for a few weeks. See if he takes a quick look at a guy or a long stare. If he stares a lot, then you may have your answer. But, you're not done yet, you then have to ask him LGBT related things to see how he'll react.

Or you could ask him.

I like my first plan better, because I feel like a detective. Good luck.

[Avicii]

Aww, sorry :/ HAPPY BIRTHDAY! So, I was wondering if any of you can give me advice. I know this has been asked millions of times, but how can I tell if someone I like is gay or not? I mean, I can suspect and guess, but how can I tell if they are being friendly or flirting? When does it cross over? *apologizes for really bad and generalized question with few details*

Thank you.

Now, onto your question, you may not like my answer, because it may seem weird. But, here goes, you have to watch what they look at, see if he looks at guys more than girls. You can't assume he's gay from the beginning results, you have to do this for a few weeks. See if he takes a quick look at a guy or a long stare. If he stares a lot, then you may have your answer. But, you're not done yet, you then have to ask him LGBT related things to see how he'll react.

Or you could ask him.

^^^All of that. Does he talk about women? Like at all? If so, does he bring up the conversation? Just because he says she's hot doesn't mean he'd get with it. If he starts talking about what'd he do with her, that's a small red flag, but not a complete one. Just watch what he does.

[Manna]

Oh..I think I'm a little late, but Happy Birthday Yoko!

[Coyote_Dynamo]

That sucks. But hey, there's probably someone out there for you and you might be looking in the wrong places.

Take it from me, I dated two people within my circle of friends and that only ended in heartbreak: the first for just over 1 year and the 2nd for about 2 months; so I decided to look elsewhere and I found someone who is completely different from me and anyone I've ever even associated with and we've been together for what will be 4 years in Nov.

[Ryubane]

Now, onto your question, you may not like my answer, because it may seem weird. But, here goes, you have to watch what they look at, see if he looks at guys more than girls. You can't assume he's gay from the beginning results, you have to do this for a few weeks. See if he takes a quick look at a guy or a long stare. If he stares a lot, then you may have your answer. But, you're not done yet, you then have to ask him LGBT related things to see how he'll react.

Or you could ask him.

I was actually just about to ask the same question PocketMonstre did, and this answered it almost perfectly thanks

reason being is that i've noticed one of my normally quiet and shy friends has started talking to me more and more and made a couple of very strange comments (strange coming from him, not strange in context). i've considered asking him if he's interested in me, but i just don't want to risk the friendship.

on a side note, i've noticed i'm getting to that point of the year where i start getting all angsty and emotional and start craving company. i think it's like a period for gay guys.

[AbFabTrainerKira]

(Games thread he's already taken, and He's MY Bishie. Check that thread)

*Get's out Shotgun, Guillotine, Scythes, and Poison* I don't think that's wise...

Also, for Fictional Characters Ken Amada from P3, Nessiah, Roswell, and Milanor from Yggdra Union. ANd of course my Bishie N.

*Stops short of pouncing you and shouts you off a cliff instead (Skyrim ftw)*
As for my list of fictional characters, let's see...Spike from Buffy the Vampire Slayer (my first man/boy crush~), Ran from the light novel Sukisho, Lu Xun from the Dynasty Warriors franchise (especially in 5, where he looks VERY feminine but doesn't have that creepy faux-flamboyance feel to him that Zhang He does), the twins from Ouran High School Host Club, and my only female choice would be Karliah from Skyrim (I don't know why, honestly, there's just something about her that entices me...don't look at me that way X.x)

[Elysian]

I tried Skyrim once.. but then I took an arrow to the knee.
Huh..? Fictional characters? Zwei from Soul Calibur, of course!

[The Eleventh]

on a side note, i've noticed i'm getting to that point of the year where i start getting all angsty and emotional and start craving company. i think it's like a period for gay guys.

Me too. I feel like I'm becoming more and more distant from my best friend. I just don't have anyone I can confide in.

[Elysian]

^ This is starting to creep me out.. Maybe it is like a period for gay guys.
Drifting away from my best friend.. it is sad..

[AbFabTrainerKira]

Y'all're nuts. The opposite is happening for muah. I'm actually making new friends at my college (okay, just two, but we all became amigos rather quickly so bugger off) while staying in contact with older friends. Perhaps my growing insanity serves as an immunity to gay periods?

[Demon Kitsune Yoko Kurama]

I told my first love off through text. He puts a lot of stress on me. I told him "I'm sorry, but I can't talk to you anymore. You only care about yourself and your appearance. You don't care about the people who care about you. You use people to gain things and you lie too much. I can no longer talk to you, because you're not the person who I thought you were."

[Elysian]

Gah.. So much trouble. The best way to tell someone you're not interested is "You! I do not want you around me! Goof off!"
Stop taking their feelings into concideration. that is what makes them misunderstand

[Cup of Tea]

Thank you.

Now, onto your question, you may not like my answer, because it may seem weird. But, here goes, you have to watch what they look at, see if he looks at guys more than girls. You can't assume he's gay from the beginning results, you have to do this for a few weeks. See if he takes a quick look at a guy or a long stare. If he stares a lot, then you may have your answer. But, you're not done yet, you then have to ask him LGBT related things to see how he'll react.

Or you could ask him.

I like my first plan better, because I feel like a detective. Good luck.

I'm not going to ask him outright because I don't want to take too many social risks at the moment. I'm going to do exactly what you said. I've tried in other times (on different people) but I usually get bored after a day or two.. But it is a good plan, and I'll try it.

Take it from me, I dated two people within my circle of friends and that only ended in heartbreak: the first for just over 1 year and the 2nd for about 2 months; so I decided to look elsewhere and I found someone who is completely different from me and anyone I've ever even associated with and we've been together for what will be 4 years in Nov.

Sorry about those two from your circle of friends. From what I have seen, friendships turning romantic does not go well a lot of times :/

I was actually just about to ask the same question PocketMonstre did, and this answered it almost perfectly thanks

reason being is that i've noticed one of my normally quiet and shy friends has started talking to me more and more and made a couple of very strange comments (strange coming from him, not strange in context). i've considered asking him if he's interested in me, but i just don't want to risk the friendship.

on a side note, i've noticed i'm getting to that point of the year where i start getting all angsty and emotional and start craving company. i think it's like a period for gay guys.

Its eerie how I know exactly what you are talking about with the last part there. Ahhh.

Me too. I feel like I'm becoming more and more distant from my best friend. I just don't have anyone I can confide in.

Same here. Its quite sad. *sigh*

[LordLucario21]

I told my first love off through text. He puts a lot of stress on me. I told him "I'm sorry, but I can't talk to you anymore. You only care about yourself and your appearance. You don't care about the people who care about you. You use people to gain things and you lie too much. I can no longer talk to you, because you're not the person who I thought you were."

You go dude. You seem like an awesome dude. I wish I had more people at my school who were actually smart like you and not some dipshits saying they have "swag" but have no such thing. The only two guys I like are a"psycho" who is smart, cute, and in a relationship. -_- The other one is my guy crush who happens to be dating. my female crush. I have never even talked to the second guy.

[Demon Kitsune Yoko Kurama]

You go dude. You seem like an awesome dude. I wish I had more people at my school who were actually smart like you and not some dipshits saying they have "swag" but have no such thing. The only two guys I like are a"psycho" who is smart, cute, and in a relationship. -_- The other one is my guy crush who happens to be dating. my female crush. I have never even talked to the second guy.

Thank you. That makes me feel better.

I'm sorry about your crushes. But, I'm in the same boat as you with the other crush. I never talked to him before either, I'm too nervous. D:

[Elysian]

My crushes usually reject me.. I am not good at this love-thing

[Demon Kitsune Yoko Kurama]

Me too. Sometimes I just think love isn't just for me.

[LordLucario21]

Shall we all start singing "Look at all the Lonely People"? I had a good laugh today. I found out my 6th grade crush who would not talk to me became a skank. Apparently she hooked up with five guys in a row. My unluckiness in love has just decreased a bit.

[Ryubane]

I'm too shy to say anything to my (multiple) crushes. And I highly doubt anyone would come up and ask ME out.