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  1. #33826
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    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Jigglypuff View Post
    The guy I was talking to online met someone else. I'm sort of okay with it because we live so far apart and one of us moving to be closer to the other wasn't a possibility because of our own jobs. But now I'll probably go through another six month dry spell on the dating site where literally no one shows any interest in me or even contacts me again. I just can't seem to meet anyone who would ever want me.
    Don't lose hope! It took me 2 years of dating to find my perfect match. There were tons of dryspells where it felt like I was seeing the same people online over and over again. Eventually that special someone pops up, and then you snag them! Sometimes you have to wade through some s**t to find the best person, though. It's hard to form a romantic interest with someone online only to have it fall through. Getting attached to a person or the idea of who that person will be can end up really disappointing.
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    Room for one more?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MechanisticMoth View Post
    Don't lose hope! It took me 2 years of dating to find my perfect match. There were tons of dryspells where it felt like I was seeing the same people online over and over again. Eventually that special someone pops up, and then you snag them! Sometimes you have to wade through some s**t to find the best person, though. It's hard to form a romantic interest with someone online only to have it fall through. Getting attached to a person or the idea of who that person will be can end up really disappointing.
    I'm so lonely though! And I've been trying to have a relationship for the past seven years! I don't think it will ever happen now....
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  4. #33829
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    It's been a long time since I have posted in here and I want to become more active again here in this club and on Serebbii over all. So first update is I have now moved out of my parent's house and living in my first apartment. I just got hired to be a full time baker at Tim Horton's but I don't see myself doing it forever but for now it's a full time job so I at lest I can afford more now. I'm also holding on to my part time job because a lot of my co-workers including my boss bagged me not to quit so I'm going to work one shift a week and I'm going to volunteer to be the Friday night closing supervisor for my department as my one and only shift a week.

    For my love life it's still just a never ending soap opera that leads me to being hurt and heartbroken. Back in April I matched with this guy on tinder that live in a city an hour away from me and we started texting and talking to each other a lot we even stayed up all night one night and talked on the phone for six hours and it didn't feel like it because we just clicked. So I went to see him and we then clicked well in person and we agreed to be boyfriends on our first date. Then two weeks later I was in his city for a medical appointment and I went early so we could have lunch together and something seemed off about him this day and I didn't want to say anything in case I was wrong but then when I kissed him goodbye he pulled away and I ended up kissing him on the cheek and at this point I knew something was really wrong. Later on that day I texted him and asked what was wrong and he said some stuff as happened in his life such as failing a class and having to retake it over the summer or he will be kicked out of his program and his grandpa isn't doing well either so he just felt now is not a good time for him to start dating someone and he went on to say he feels really bad about it but really wants us to stay friends. I agreed to that at first but we hung out once after the breakup and still talked everyday and I started to see a new side of him and he isn't the good guy I thought he was so I ghosted him because I couldn't bring myself to stay friends with him after some of the things he said and was doing after the breakup. One of them being I don't think I can love anyone because I think love is something stupid people believe in to make themselves feel better. There is more but I'm not going to get into the full details of that.

    June came around and I deiced to put myself back out there again and I got catfished by a guy that seamed really amazing, ghosted by another and I went on a date with a guy and we had a good time and he said he wanted to go on another date with me and wanted to be the one to plan it and said he was going to take me to a board game cafe where we could have drinks and play games together. Sadly that never happened because he then texted me saying he was getting back with his ex who he had a long distance/online relationship that lives in Europe. That right there was what has made me given up on finding someone because every time I meet someone I like I end up going on an emotional roller coaster ride and my heart just isnt in it anymore to handle anymore disappointment so now I'm 100% focused on playing Pokemon in my free time and I'm happy doing it.

    Sorry for the long post I just had a lot to say!
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  5. #33830
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    @Jiggly and Kdude
    It's like MMoth said. It takes time and several tries.

    I really can relate to you. Even some people saying I'm handsome and fitting the beauty standard (except a bit too skinny), I think my personality isn't that interesting after all, because the guys I met quickly stop talking to me.
    After some fails I also grow tired but after some rest time I'm ready to try again, lol.

    Even the guy I was dating since February has stopped to talk since last month... I know he has been busy but I'm not sure that's all.
    Anyway, maybe it's better this way. When I spent an afternoon with him early June it was a bit awkward, it seems our everyday life wouldn't be as interesting as the occasional dates were. ._.

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