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    NEVER SEND NUDES OVER THE INTERNET
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    I'm sort of in the middle when it comes to sending nudes. I don't do it because I don't have a mirror big enough to to take one and I also hate taking pictures of myself. But I love it when guys send me nudes of themselves. I feel so sleazy....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everlasting View Post
    I love my mom and she has made it very clear that she loves me no matter how I label myself.
    My girlfriend's bi, and I totally hear about all of the awful things she's been through. I'm straight, but I really don't care if she also into girls because she's primarily into me. So, hearing these horror stories is really terrifying. Luckily, yours wasn't worst case scenario, but hearing some of that heteronormative cultural stuff can definitely be exhausting. You took the first big step, so I'm sure the other ones will be difficult but probably not as difficult as the first.

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    NEVER SEND NUDES OVER THE INTERNET
    never...
    Yeah, it's just a bad idea. Any way that a person can save your photo or video is a bad idea, even if you trust them 99.9999999%. There are thousands of tumblr's devoted to just people posting their ex's nudes.
    If you do send them, make sure you send them through a service that will automatically delete them and prevents saving the photos or videos by the receiver (SNAPCHAT DOES NOT DO THIS).
    Also, nudity is usually more fun in person, so try to maximize that possibility.
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    Nice to see this place is still up and running.

    I thought it may have closed down a while ago.




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    I don't understand a point in taking nudes. There was this big presentation in high school about how your nudes will end up everywhere (which totally happened to a girl who was a grade ahead of me in high school). I would never do it, especially because I have no need to; considering my boyfriend is readily accessible at all times. (I mean, I guess I kind of get it if you wanted something intimate from a long distance relationship but even then I wouldn't say do it.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hydrangea View Post
    I don't understand a point in taking nudes. There was this big presentation in high school about how your nudes will end up everywhere (which totally happened to a girl who was a grade ahead of me in high school). I would never do it, especially because I have no need to; considering my boyfriend is readily accessible at all times. (I mean, I guess I kind of get it if you wanted something intimate from a long distance relationship but even then I wouldn't say do it.)
    Yeah, long distance is a bit more understandable, but if you're going to see the person the next day, wellll.... whaaa?
    There are also a lot of issues, particularly in high school or even college, where people are ****-shamed (boys & girls) for having nude photos of themselves out there. I always thought, "If this person saves this photo, how will I feel if someone puts it on the internet and a family member or friend finds it?"
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    And you have no idea where those pictures are going to end up, no matter who you send them to. It could seriously ruin you if they got into the wrong hands.

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    Remember that guy I'm dating with?
    Friday I went to his place for the first time (although he had been wanted it for 2 weeks) and spent the night there. We watched a movie, etc... And we did it. It was my first time actually, and I was a bit tense (it didn't work during the night, but we managed to do it in the morning). He was very patient and gentle, we had a great time.

    Also, he is almost as worried about home cleanness as me! I feel much more comfortable with him now. ^-^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    Remember that guy I'm dating with?
    Friday I went to his place for the first time (although he had been wanted it for 2 weeks) and spent the night there. We watched a movie, etc... And we did it. It was my first time actually, and I was a bit tense (it didn't work during the night, but we managed to do it in the morning). He was very patient and gentle, we had a great time.

    Also, he is almost as worried about home cleanness as me! I feel much more comfortable with him now. ^-^
    I'm glad you two had a good time. I'm not talking to the guy from online much anymore because he is too weird and makes me uncomfortable. But I have been feeling good about myself the past few days, which is good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    Remember that guy I'm dating with?
    Friday I went to his place for the first time (although he had been wanted it for 2 weeks) and spent the night there. We watched a movie, etc... And we did it. It was my first time actually, and I was a bit tense (it didn't work during the night, but we managed to do it in the morning). He was very patient and gentle, we had a great time.

    Also, he is almost as worried about home cleanness as me! I feel much more comfortable with him now. ^-^
    That's great! I'm glad it was a pleasant experience especially since it was your first time. That is always nerve wracking, and it's good that he was very understanding. Make sure to use protection!

    Quote Originally Posted by KalosChampion View Post
    I'm not talking to the guy from online much anymore because he is too weird and makes me uncomfortable. But I have been feeling good about myself the past few days, which is good.
    If someone makes you feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable, back the f- out. You should be absolutely confident you want to hang out/date that person, and if you're slightly like, "eggghhhhh," then it's not worth it.
    Great that you're feeling good about yourself. Keep it up!
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    I've been talking to this one guy online and I'm afraid he'll start to not like me in a couple of weeks because that's exactly what happens to me literally every time.
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    I also think nudes aren't always the best idea, even in relationships. If you have anything that can be used against you, you either have to A) get rid of it completely or B) own the **** out of it. Although I think most people have sent a nude at least once in their life :P

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    I'm not really a member, just a mod that checks on all the Clubs, and I appreciate the seriousness of how you've discussed this topic. So, hopefully it's okay that I'd like to comment my opinions on this as well, please don't send nudes:
    - Potentially it's illegal, based on your/their age and where you are in the world.
    - Anything you put on the internet could be there forever despite any attempts to get rid of it. There are ways to get around restrictions, it's as easy as them taking a screenshot.
    - There are whole websites that revolve around distributing revenge pictures that people tell you they didn't save.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MechanisticMoth View Post
    That's great! I'm glad it was a pleasant experience especially since it was your first time. That is always nerve wracking, and it's good that he was very understanding. Make sure to use protection!
    Always!

    Also, I forgot to mention: the movie we watched Friday was "The Way he Looks", which I commented here months ago I really wanted to watch!
    Such a cute and light film.


    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Jigglypuff View Post
    I've been talking to this one guy online and I'm afraid he'll start to not like me in a couple of weeks because that's exactly what happens to me literally every time.
    Hmm, how about you start to expect that worst case scenario? Then anything better would be a good surprise.

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    I just bought a pair of women's jeans at Goodwill today and the scary thing is they fit so much better on me than men's jeans do. They aren't too tight or too baggy and I can still move so freely in them including being able to stand with my legs further than shoulder width. They will work nicely for this one routine I'm trying to come up with in my head as part of my act.
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    A guy I've been talking to online entered me in a drag show fundraiser that his church is holding on May 6. I know what songs I will do and have the outfits and accessories I'll have in my mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VampirateMace View Post
    I'm not really a member, just a mod that checks on all the Clubs, and I appreciate the seriousness of how you've discussed this topic. So, hopefully it's okay that I'd like to comment my opinions on this as well, please don't send nudes:
    - Potentially it's illegal, based on your/their age and where you are in the world.
    - Anything you put on the internet could be there forever despite any attempts to get rid of it. There are ways to get around restrictions, it's as easy as them taking a screenshot.
    - There are whole websites that revolve around distributing revenge pictures that people tell you they didn't save.
    For sure! Thanks for your insight. Also, to add, many revenge porn sites are illegal, but they crop up online almost as fast as they're taken down. Your nudes can be distributed constantly for years. This could affect future employment or other applications. Many employers will google you before or after they interview you.

    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Jigglypuff View Post
    A guy I've been talking to online entered me in a drag show fundraiser that his church is holding on May 6. I know what songs I will do and have the outfits and accessories I'll have in my mind.
    That sounds like so much fun! It's cool that a church is open enough to do that, too. I hope you have fun with your budding drag career!
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    I'm going to do Miss You Much by Janet Jackson as one of my songs. I am going to wear something that looks like Janet would wear, do some of the dance moves from the video, and wear a hoop earring with a key on it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Jigglypuff View Post
    I'm going to do Miss You Much by Janet Jackson as one of my songs. I am going to wear something that looks like Janet would wear, do some of the dance moves from the video, and wear a hoop earring with a key on it.
    I love that song

    That sounds like a lot of fun. I wish you luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bananarama View Post
    I love that song

    That sounds like a lot of fun. I wish you luck!
    Well I had to choose songs that weren't to risqué for a church function. So no songs like I Know What Boys Like by The Waitresses or She Bop by Cyndi Lauper. Don't think that would go over so well.

    My other two songs will be I'm Coming Out by Diana Ross which will be my opening song and I plan on using hand fans. The third song is Let Me Be the One by Exposé with one hand fan.
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    I got a pair of knee high lace up boots at Goodwill! I've been wanting a pair like these for awhile now and I paid $7 for them! They have a nice sturdy heel and make me at least six foot tall now. They give me an additional five or six inches. I really like heels and can balance in them very we'll.
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    Nice job, Captain!


    The guy I'm dating gave me a chocolate egg for Easter! (A bit early because he went to spend the holyweek in his town.)
    So cute!
    The more time I spend with him, the more I enjoy the idea of us as a couple. <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    Nice job, Captain!


    The guy I'm dating gave me a chocolate egg for Easter! (A bit early because he went to spend the holyweek in his town.)
    So cute!
    The more time I spend with him, the more I enjoy the idea of us as a couple. <3
    That's so cute im happy for you I wish a guy would even consider giving me a present. lol

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    So yeah. I think i'm going to join this club, whether i diside to post again or not. As i am still sensitive to reading posts about bullies and stuff, my next post may take awhile....yes, i was a bit over sheltered, maybe a lot, and didn't go to school as a kid, so that too made me feel uneasy about making a post here. As it offishalizes that status more online. I have been incressingly getting stronger emotionally, since getting into Korrina, so I feel i still have a chance out there. Give or take.

    This post is really meant to be about my crush on Korrina, and how she's been helping me. So here it goes...

    You see, I am female (it's mentioned in my signature, but oh well). I have a crush on a pokemon character...aka korrina...and a MAJOR crush at that.....and she's also female. While I am not sure if I have sexual feelings twards real life females at all (though i may have some feeling twards my trans female friend, but she's also online, so i duno if that accounts for much...), i've liked SEVERAL females in fiction (not just korrina), though Korrina may be the first i've ever had real sexual desires twards/crushed on to a real intensity overall.

    In society, homosexuality is concidered a 'sin against God/the bible', for some reason, from what i've heard. I do not see how my crush on Korrina is a 'sin' in ANY way, shape, or form. She's been nothing but helpful to me on all emotional levels. I'm autistic, and suffer DEEPLY of stuff like black and white thinking, and i used to get depressed rather often. All that has been getting better for me now, a lot better, in fact. SINCE MY CRUSH ON KORRINA STARTED. People can say negative things around me more now, and i won't flip out, get depressed, start thinking cute things are 'evil' again, or otherwise throw a major meltdown irl. Those things really aren't happening for me anymore. I more honestly feel happy, in some ways, a pollyanna now. I feel i can get through ANYTHING due to my feelings for korrina. Its amazing. She help's me in ways nothing else has, or any other crush (lugana from ff8 started as somewhat like something like this, but that ended quickly when i read how depressing his back story was XD; ). I am a little attached to her, feeling i should look at her almost all the time, and sometimes have difficulties falling asleep at night cuz i feel so HYPER over her, and thats kinda normal for me since she's a crush overall. But depression? No. I'm really a much happier person now. I even draw Korrina really well irl, and have done many drawings so of her. She appers in my dreams, too, or at least my feelings are parodied in them (like how i acted twards that pichu plushie a little while ago. lol).

    I do have this weird hunger thing, and it made me question if the 'God punishment' thing is real, but my mom looked up what i was going through online, and it just seems to relate to anxiety. It seems to be getting better now, too, as i'm starting to calm down overall. I suppose, since my mood's been so much better, my body still has anxiety in other ways. Till i over come all that too. I'm coming a long way. It'd be nice to do so on my own, but knowing a good tool that really works for me (and i really do love so much) is a nice thing too.

    I hope this post put a smile on peoples faces

    As for being picked on, no, i haven't been picked on for this crush, but i don't go to school or collage right now, either, and i try not to talk about her while i'm out. Even if i'd love to. My counselor, nami, does know, and she's cool with it. My brother know's and he rather likes having a 'rival' over a fictional girl he also find's very cute. My mom know's and she's completely respectful and encouraging. Yep, so far, just good vibes all over in the real world with this

    EDIT: Editing this post over time to fix some spelling mistakes.

    EDIT2: Fixing the post cuz it makes it sound like i don't believe in God at one point o.o And i do. What i meant to say, is i worried that his 'punishment' thing was real. But i do not think it is at all. And my mom always tell's me God is love. Which i struggle to understand, due to some things relating to society, but i try to agree with her...
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    I'm a girl lol
    Gay, happy triox! Wait, gay also means happy, right? :P Riiight?

    Mew is my favorite pokemon
    I have a MAJOR crush on korrina and i think she's totally awesome! best gym leader ever. Should be a champion.
    I have autism and try to keep an open mind about things. My life can get weird.
    ...i'm wary of re adding my korrina forum to my sig. Those two trolls really got to me...

    Even if it just ends up me and some close friends in the end, i'm happy, at this point. Just no more trolls. Thats all i'd ask...cuz, really, they can cause a world of damage for me :< and korrina mean's the world to me. and my friends i've made through her.

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