I have two shallow rules when it comes to dating or telling myself I'm attracted to that guy I see across the room: he has to be taller than me, and he has to be older than me (with women, I prefer younger and shorter). My crush? My adoration for five strong years? A guy who is younger and shorter, but incredibly intelligent and witty, his dry humor is hilarious, and we've been friends since we met. I've been clingy and completely embarrassing, and I love easily but never this hard. *sighs with a smile* I'm okay where we are, I enjoy what we have, but I always want more with him.