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    Quote Originally Posted by Schade View Post
    Nothingjustgo, sounds like a good turn of events if your grades got better. lol. You're lucky. When I first came to terms with my sexuality, I entered a pretty bad depression phase that kinda never went away.

    Hooray for your progress, Mist!!
    That's sucks to hear haha. I guess it just bothered me that I thought I couldn't love, kinda drove me crazy. I think it's why I started to play a lot of games tbh. That's where I got my love from since I thought I didn't like people
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    Welcome, people. =]

    Quote Originally Posted by Sir DJ View Post
    I think that if you're confident your friendship will last whether he knows or not then you should definitely risk it. You never know until ya try y'know. But if you're not confident he'd be ok with it maybe wait a while longer. Either way though good luck.
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    Gabriel (omg, your name is so Portuguese, where are you from??), the thing is a friendship killer, but it helps if you feel you have nothing to lose.


    Quote Originally Posted by Nothingjustgo. View Post
    Once I made that realization I instantly got over my depression (if that's what it was, wasn't sure). Like my school grades improved (I'm in second year business now), and I just had an overall better outlook in life. It changed me, and made me realize I could love...just a different type of person than I thought :P.
    Haha, those are awesome news!


    Quote Originally Posted by Aromatic Mist View Post
    I would also like to join, I've been struggling coming to terms with my sexuality in the past, believing at different points I was straight, then bi, and then I went straight to identifying as asexual due to being in denial over being gay. Of course, this was all around when I was about 13(?), so I'm a lot more comftorable with myself, but I only came out as gay to the majority of my friends last year.
    Oh, I remember I also wanted to believe I was asexual. But things get better after coming out to people who won't hate us. x)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir DJ View Post
    LOL of course you're welcome to join.
    And if you or any body has any questions/discussions you'd like to talk about feel free to bring them up (as long as it's pg-13).
    Thanks. I think I'm going to advance, though I'll have to build some courage first xD

    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    Welcome, people. =]
    THAT.
    Gabriel (omg, your name is so Portuguese, where are you from??), the thing is a friendship killer, but it helps if you feel you have nothing to lose.
    Yes, I'm portuguese (more specifically from Porto).

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    I see...
    I actually hoped for another Brazilian here. x)



    I "almost" fell in love with a straight new friend...
    He's a freshman and joined our volleyball team. He has been extremely friendly with anyone but giving me a lot of attention. But he never had mentioned anything about his girlfriend. =/
    Luckily, I talked about it to a girl from the team (who is our friend as well), and she informed me about his girlfriend and even other misunderstandings happening to him because of his sympathy.

    Btw, I only decided to talk to her after he started to teach me some dance steps, including holding hands and close embrace.

    Nevertheless, I think I can have my feelings under control now that's all cleared...

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    Heyo everyone, long time no talk. Getting ready for college now (And I started posting here before High School started). It's sort of amazing how much time flies. Anyways I'll be joining my JC's Rainbow Club when the fall semester starts. No luck on my end reltionship wise, but I still keep trying. Hope everyone's having a good time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Schade View Post
    Hooray for your progress, Mist!!
    Thank you! ^v^

    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    Oh, I remember I also wanted to believe I was asexual. But things get better after coming out to people who won't hate us. x)
    Coming out and finding support is one of the best feelings in the world, it's just so wonderful to feel accepted.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tattooed Tooth View Post
    I "almost" fell in love with a straight new friend...
    Over affectionate straight friends are pretty much simultaneously the best and worst thing ever. On the one hand, they're lovely people, but on the other hand its just like 'no plz stop i might get like, super gay feelings for you :s'
    Even the Hateful Succumb to Love.

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    How do i join

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    Quote Originally Posted by EthanTheKid View Post
    How do i join
    You just did lol. Feel free to introduce yourself
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    Well I am signing up. Umm For those of you who don't know me, you can call me Nyter. I haven't been on here since 3 years ago but I recently came back to the forums.

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    So... last night I went to my city's academic commemorations. It was fine and I went with M. Still, I ended up not telling him I like him, because his friend from England apparently already ended his college year and is back in Portugal. This is not a problem, because he's also a close friend to me. The problem was that he invited TONS of people to go along with us. I didn't know them well and we all seemed like a herd. I didn't get to talk much to M except when we were going home. He was supposed to sleep over at our friend's house, but at the last minute he decided to go home and accompany me (we live close to each other). It was cool and we got to talk more in half an hour than in the whole night at the festival, but I couldn't bring myself to tell him anything.

    Anyways, the school year is ending and he already suggested we do a lot of things to enjoy the summer, so I guess we will end up spending more time together than I thought xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabriel Faria View Post
    So... last night I went to my city's academic commemorations. It was fine and I went with M. Still, I ended up not telling him I like him, because his friend from England apparently already ended his college year and is back in Portugal. This is not a problem, because he's also a close friend to me. The problem was that he invited TONS of people to go along with us. I didn't know them well and we all seemed like a herd. I didn't get to talk much to M except when we were going home. He was supposed to sleep over at our friend's house, but at the last minute he decided to go home and accompany me (we live close to each other). It was cool and we got to talk more in half an hour than in the whole night at the festival, but I couldn't bring myself to tell him anything.

    Anyways, the school year is ending and he already suggested we do a lot of things to enjoy the summer, so I guess we will end up spending more time together than I thought xD
    I always think it is better to come out before telling someone you have a crush on that person all together. It just makes for a smoother transition of acceptance. But if you two are that tight, then you should be fine. M will be there to the very end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ne0n-H!tch'd View Post
    I always think it is better to come out before telling someone you have a crush on that person all together. It just makes for a smoother transition of acceptance. But if you two are that tight, then you should be fine. M will be there to the very end.
    Well, we are not that tight. How can I explain...? He's a somewhat close friend, but we don't hang out all the time and he kinda has "his group". It's like a 8/10 in a scale of friendship xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabriel Faria View Post
    Well, we are not that tight. How can I explain...? He's a somewhat close friend, but we don't hang out all the time and he kinda has "his group". It's like a 8/10 in a scale of friendship xD
    Ok so do you have any suspicion that M may like you back? And do you guys share similar interest (I.e. Pokemon)?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ne0n-H!tch'd View Post
    Ok so do you have any suspicion that M may like you back? And do you guys share similar interest (I.e. Pokemon)?
    While he seems straight, he's been odd with me sometimes. In 11th grade, I remember one time in P.E class when we were dancing and there were more boys than girls. He asked me if I wanted to dance with him and when I refused (we were in a somewhat bad phase) he stopped talking to me for days. Some time after that, one girl from our class turned to us and jokingly said that me and M looked like boyfriends because we were always fighting. He heard and responded that if I was his boyfriend I would have accepted dancing with him...

    On another occasion, last summer, I mentioned to him and a friend that I was in a mood to buy a GBC and GBC games, but was having trouble finding some. When my birthday came, he offered me his used GBA and some games (including Red and Gold) in a Blastoise case, which was a surprise as I never expected such generosity from him.

    There was other strange stuff, but I think you got the idea. The thing is, I don't know what to think of him, because his behavior is constantly changing. When we are with his friends, he's always checking "hot girls" on Instagram and in the street (lol) and sometimes says some stupid things. But when he's not with them or when we are alone, he's very kind, supportive and friendly. That's basically what happened the other day (he went from one opposite to the other when we were going home).

    So, that's why I really want to tell him I love him, but at the same time I'm afraid of what his reaction might be. If he's going to be okay or react coldly, etc...

    About the similar interests...we're close to the complete opposite. And about Pokémon, he stopped playing as a kid when he didn't enjoy gen III.
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    I think you should definitely tell him. Maybe don't use the word love cause that scares some people. But tell him you like and care about him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir DJ View Post
    I think you should definitely tell him. Maybe don't use the word love cause that scares some people. But tell him you like and care about him.
    Well, people keep telling me that, so I think it's the natural thing to do then xD

    On another subject, I think I was so focused on asking advice that I didn't introduce myself properly. Not that anyone cares but:

    Well, I'm portuguese and I live in Porto, which you might have heard of since we have the "francesinha" and one of the best european football teams (FC Porto).
    I'm 18 and I study Pharmaceutical Sciences at college, though if I had the guts I would try a singer's career.
    I like all kinds of music, but I tend to lean towards "indie rock" and "hard rock". My favourite bands are Scorpions and ABBA.
    My favourite TV show is "The Fosters". It is a multi-cultural LBGT family (a lesbian couple and their 5 kids: 1 biological, 2 adopted and 2 fostered). It has a superb story and I can guarantee that I don't watch just because of the lesbians (though they're awesome) xD
    My dream trips are to Australia, Canada and Holland.

    I kinda always knew I was gay, mainly since I was in 1st grade and I said that X guy on the magazine was handsome. All the other boys turned to me like «Boys don't appreciate boys». That made me think a lot as at the time I knew next to nothing about genders, but I quickly came to a conclusion and said to me «You know what? I think that guy was handsome and it is genuine».

    I think I'm the kind of guy that passes as straight, though some boys might suspect I'm gay because when I'm with them and they're "checking girls" I never give my opinion (though I have one xD). They may think that, because here in Portugal there is a very strong culture of the "macho man" specially in the younger demographics. Guys talk about girls 95% of the time (and the talks tend to be dirty xD), so even if you're straight, but a little bit timid to talk about that, they might think you're gay. But it's fine, because while they might seem intimidating, they tend to be very respectful and accepting towards LGBT. And if a jerk messes with you, they're gonna be there...to give the aggressor a trip to the hospital. People may talk about X person being gay or whatever, but it's just because we portuguese LOVE us some gossip, believe me xD

    Sorry about the boring talk xD

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    I ain't gay or bisexual, but I find that you diserve respect! I find that you don't get enough respect, I don't understand why some people hate your sexual orientation, people must respect that! We are 2016, everything can, that can too! For me is that no problem that you love male/female people, you must feel your good! People must don't laugh at you when you are gay/lebsian/bisexual, they must respect that, I am sure that you don't laugh at people who aren't gay/lesbian or bisexual! I respect you!
    Pokémon are like people, they mirror the emotions of people like: jealousy,happiness,sadness!

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    Can you guys offer me a bit of advice? A friend of mines has been acting quite depressed recently, and another friend of mines went through something similar when he discovered he was bisexual. These two friends (especially the currently depressed one) also have interactions that I can only describe as... borderline homoerotic.

    Thing is though, it could very easily be for other reasons (it's Scottish Exams rn, so that can't be helping), and my friend group is very sexually diverse (about half of us are bi, with I as the sole gay \(uwu)/) so I don't want to make him feel like I'm pressing what he might think is my own beliefs on him? Like, I have, zero percent interest in this guy, so I don't want to come across the wrong way.
    Even the Hateful Succumb to Love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aromatic Mist View Post
    Can you guys offer me a bit of advice? A friend of mines has been acting quite depressed recently, and another friend of mines went through something similar when he discovered he was bisexual. These two friends (especially the currently depressed one) also have interactions that I can only describe as... borderline homoerotic.

    Thing is though, it could very easily be for other reasons (it's Scottish Exams rn, so that can't be helping), and my friend group is very sexually diverse (about half of us are bi, with I as the sole gay \(uwu)/) so I don't want to make him feel like I'm pressing what he might think is my own beliefs on him? Like, I have, zero percent interest in this guy, so I don't want to come across the wrong way.
    well just make sure he knows that no matter what the outcome is that you will always be there for him as a friend. Ask about his life and show him that you are concerned with him. but don't push him if he doesn't want to talk or anything. that's what I would say. or else tell stories of positive experiences you have had.
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    You are very wise, LemonCatPower!
    Pokémon are like people, they mirror the emotions of people like: jealousy,happiness,sadness!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemoncatpower View Post
    well just make sure he knows that no matter what the outcome is that you will always be there for him as a friend. Ask about his life and show him that you are concerned with him. but don't push him if he doesn't want to talk or anything. that's what I would say. or else tell stories of positive experiences you have had.
    So I was leaving it to see if anyone else would respond because I was afraid of overposting, and then I forgot about your really awesome post! : O

    Thank you for the advice! Yeah, I'm gonna think about this, maybe subtly hint at it so if he feels comfortable about telling me he can? I think that he's had a lot of examples of people being happy with their own sexuality due to the diversity of our social circle's sexualities, so hopefully if he is struggling with his sexuality, he feels supported.
    Even the Hateful Succumb to Love.

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    So it's been a long time since I last posted on here but I have decided to become active again because of all the Sun & Moon hype! I have already per-ordered both! So I'm now done school completely but still working a part time retail job for the time being. In terms of my love life I met a guy back in October that was basically love at first sight and I could see it in his eyes too and I can still tell he has feeling for me. We have become friends but the problem is he his from a very strict religious home and I don't see him coming out anytime soon. He hasn't even officially told me that he is gay/bi. He did tell me once when he was in high school he thought he might be bi but then realized he is straight but I don't buy it just because of the way he looks at me and jokes with me in kind of a flirty way at times. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking about him but I don't want to tell him how I feel because if my gut feeling about him is wrong I don't want to ruin our friendship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kdude146 View Post
    So it's been a long time since I last posted on here but I have decided to become active again because of all the Sun & Moon hype! I have already per-ordered both! So I'm now done school completely but still working a part time retail job for the time being. In terms of my love life I met a guy back in October that was basically love at first sight and I could see it in his eyes too and I can still tell he has feeling for me. We have become friends but the problem is he his from a very strict religious home and I don't see him coming out anytime soon. He hasn't even officially told me that he is gay/bi. He did tell me once when he was in high school he thought he might be bi but then realized he is straight but I don't buy it just because of the way he looks at me and jokes with me in kind of a flirty way at times. No matter what I do I can't stop thinking about him but I don't want to tell him how I feel because if my gut feeling about him is wrong I don't want to ruin our friendship.
    I know that, one of my best (girl) friends (I am a boy) is mulsim and she don't may get a boyfriend who isn't a muslim, I find, we are 2016, they MUST be theirself!
    Pokémon are like people, they mirror the emotions of people like: jealousy,happiness,sadness!

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    I'm going to stand up for LGBTQ people very strongly in my upcoming novel. I anticipate it'll be very successful on a Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Twilight status not too shortly. So all all you LGBTQ people out there don't worry, everybody's still fighting for you!

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