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    Alright so there's this girl (original right?). There have been multiple times when she's said that i'm sexy or that she loves me and when we hang out with our group of friends she is always hugging or pinching me. I was convinced that she liked me but now she's talking about some guy she's pretty much started dating (she hasn't officially said it but it's pretty obvious).
    My question is does she have any feelings for me and if so why the other guy? If she doesn't then why do girls feel the need to do this to us guys?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FroTW View Post
    Alright so there's this girl (original right?). There have been multiple times when she's said that i'm sexy or that she loves me and when we hang out with our group of friends she is always hugging or pinching me. I was convinced that she liked me but now she's talking about some guy she's pretty much started dating (she hasn't officially said it but it's pretty obvious).
    My question is does she have any feelings for me and if so why the other guy? If she doesn't then why do girls feel the need to do this to us guys?
    Well has she "flirted" with you as of recent? If not then she's probably just moved on to this other guy. If she's doing this all at the same time then she's either goofing off with you, or just exploring her options.

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    Quote Originally Posted by djhappy View Post
    Well has she "flirted" with you as of recent? If not then she's probably just moved on to this other guy. If she's doing this all at the same time then she's either goofing off with you, or just exploring her options.

    The only real way to find out %100 if she likes you is if you were to ask her (it's obvious, but nobody ever goes this route).
    Well, Thusday she borrowed my calculator for like 5 minutes then gave it back with a message claiming that i was sexy, then she asked if i was a virgin cause i look like someone who is a freak in the bed
    Part of me wants to ask but it's rare that I'm alone with her (mostly cause my friends don't understand the term "cockblocking") and a good friend of mine was crazy about her last year, he claims to be over her but I don't know for sure
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    So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
    Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.

    Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kit Kat View Post
    So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
    Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.

    Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kit Kat View Post
    So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
    Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.

    Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?
    Think about the next job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kit Kat View Post
    So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
    Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.

    Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?
    Don't get fired. It looks awful on job applications. And try to at least patch things up a bit so she gives you a decent reference. It sucks, but that's how you get future jobs.
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    Okay so this is a new thing.

    I need advice for this:

    About a year ago I had a rock band. We have since then broken up, due to fighting among the guitarist and bassist, and me and the singer really not taking sides or caring.

    At about the start of this Summer, the guitarist started another band with a few inexperienced musicians from our school. I heard them, and they sucked. I didn't say anything though. The guitarist called me today, wanting to try to start a new band with me playing rhythm guitar and singing this time, him playing lead, and the second chair percussionist from our school band (who i'm great friends with) playing drums. We will find a bassist at the place I take music lessons. I wish to have a new band, as I find it very fun, but I don't want to waste more time with another band that could fail for the same reason as the last one.

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    I need some advice:

    New year = New girl. Anyway, I did start to take interest in someone else who is in one of my classes. She looks like a sweet girl. Last Monday, I did sit by her in class, kinda talked about something of my interest, and complimented on how she looked that day by saying, "You look pretty today," and she responded, "Thanks." When the class started, after some of the instructor's words to the class, I told her some funny interpretations of what he said to the class, made her laugh a little. Is her laughing to some of the things I said to her in class a good sign that may lead to a good friendship? I do want to get to know her a little more before even thinking about going out, what should I do? Should I go ahead and get her number the next time I see her in class? Advice please, thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FroTW View Post
    Alright so there's this girl (original right?). There have been multiple times when she's said that i'm sexy or that she loves me and when we hang out with our group of friends she is always hugging or pinching me. I was convinced that she liked me but now she's talking about some guy she's pretty much started dating (she hasn't officially said it but it's pretty obvious).
    My question is does she have any feelings for me and if so why the other guy? If she doesn't then why do girls feel the need to do this to us guys?
    I've had LOADS of girls (and some guys) flirt with me yet not love me. They've done some of the stuff you've mentioned there, and more, but they're just being close, flirty friends. It's not always about them loving you.

    However, at the same time, she might like you, and these might be clear signs of her flirting.

    She seems to like this guy, so my advice is to be a good friend and support her with when she goes out with this guy. It might be difficult, but you'd rather be a good friend than someone who's going to go against her relationships and ultimately be someone she hates. Spend more time with her to see if it's just her being a close friend to you or if she fancies you. I'm the kind of person who has people flirting with me but as close friends and not as someone they'd date. It might be a case of you being a good friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kit Kat View Post
    So I'm about to finally get fired from my job that I've been at since 2007.
    Long story short, I basically told off my assistant manager because she's a total hypocrite. So she took away all of my hours.

    Should I find a new job and quit before they fire me, or let them fire me and be like "BITCHES I'M FREEEEE!!" in her face, to make me feel so much better?
    It's going to look incredibly bad if it's discovered that you were fired from your previous job. Try and patch things up at least. Look for a new job, but you don't want to leave your job with your assistant manager, and possibly others at the job, hating you. You might not be bothered if they hate you, but your future employers certainly will.

    Quote Originally Posted by DooblyDooHaxorus View Post
    Okay so this is a new thing.

    I need advice for this:

    About a year ago I had a rock band. We have since then broken up, due to fighting among the guitarist and bassist, and me and the singer really not taking sides or caring.

    At about the start of this Summer, the guitarist started another band with a few inexperienced musicians from our school. I heard them, and they sucked. I didn't say anything though. The guitarist called me today, wanting to try to start a new band with me playing rhythm guitar and singing this time, him playing lead, and the second chair percussionist from our school band (who i'm great friends with) playing drums. We will find a bassist at the place I take music lessons. I wish to have a new band, as I find it very fun, but I don't want to waste more time with another band that could fail for the same reason as the last one.

    Any advice?
    I think you have to take things less seriously, yet still be devoted. The problem with many bands is that they take things too seriously and end up arguing about the future of the band. It depends on whether you see a future in this band or not. Personally, I'd say if you find it fun and you're with friends, then you should take part, but you should make everyone else realise how you feel about the band.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cipher_Admin View Post
    I need some advice:

    New year = New girl. Anyway, I did start to take interest in someone else who is in one of my classes. She looks like a sweet girl. Last Monday, I did sit by her in class, kinda talked about something of my interest, and complimented on how she looked that day by saying, "You look pretty today," and she responded, "Thanks." When the class started, after some of the instructor's words to the class, I told her some funny interpretations of what he said to the class, made her laugh a little. Is her laughing to some of the things I said to her in class a good sign that may lead to a good friendship? I do want to get to know her a little more before even thinking about going out, what should I do? Should I go ahead and get her number the next time I see her in class? Advice please, thanks!
    Her laughing is definetely a good sign. One of the things girls tend to look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. It should lead to a good friendship, but I'd suggest talking to her a bit more before you get her number - get to know her a bit more. Get to know more about what she likes, what she does after school, etc. Then you can get her number and invite her out to places, even just as a friend.
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    ok so theres this girl right(originol i know) and she went up to me and asked if i got milk....what am i supposed to say after that???
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    Quote Originally Posted by phoenragon View Post
    If you don't plan on telling him how you feel, then you might as well try to move on. You'll just make yourself miserable pining over him... =/

    You can try to find a hobby that you can distract yourself with. That's what I've done in the past when dealing with bad breakups, anyway.
    That hobby part sound like a great idea. And he's really difficult to get over xD
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    Does anyone here have any techniques for dealing with anxiety or depression?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ces View Post
    Does anyone here have any techniques for dealing with anxiety or depression?
    Face your fear! that's my advice. It worked for my friend and her weird phobia against puke :/
    Depression.. I don't know. Dealing with it myself too but.. No answer in sight, sorry
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ces View Post
    Does anyone here have any techniques for dealing with anxiety or depression?
    If you're feeling depressed then it's best to surround yourself with supportive people. Even if you don't feel like it, hang out with your friends. Stay busy, pick up a new hobby, go for a long walk when you have nothing better to do. The worst thing you can do when feeling depressed is to sit at home alone and wallow in your thoughts, that always makes it worse.

    If it starts to get really bad, you want to hurt yourself or start thinking suicidal thoughts, contact a friend or close family member and talk about it.



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    Thank you for the replies. I'm getting better, but there are still those days where I just want to lay in bed and do nothing. School starts tomorrow, so that will keep me occupied.

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    It happens to a lot of people, it's unfortunate, but true.

    School will definitely help you stay busy, and if you feel you're relapsing join a new club. I'm happiest when I'm the busiest. Just don't stay idle and you'll be fine.



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    Quote Originally Posted by FroTW View Post
    Well, Thusday she borrowed my calculator for like 5 minutes then gave it back with a message claiming that i was sexy, then she asked if i was a virgin cause i look like someone who is a freak in the bed
    Part of me wants to ask but it's rare that I'm alone with her (mostly cause my friends don't understand the term "cockblocking") and a good friend of mine was crazy about her last year, he claims to be over her but I don't know for sure
    Her calling you sexy and then asking you if you were a virgin and saying you look like a freak in the bed kind of gives me a feeling that she may like you. Asking her might be a good choice in your situation. It all depends on if she really likes the other guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ces View Post
    Does anyone here have any techniques for dealing with anxiety or depression?
    If you can pinpoint the time when your anxiety/depression started, you could try and see if there was anything that played a part in causing it, and then attempt to avoid whatever that may be or find a solution to the problem.

    If that doesn't work, or there isn't a solid cause, all you can do is surround yourself with happy and uplifting people as much as possible. The more you're alone, the more your depression and anxiety will have time to develop and become worse.

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    Thanks again for the kind words. I'm actually starting a new school this year, because I felt I needed a fresh start. A lot of my old classmates weren't the kindest people in the world, but that's a whole different story.

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    Just going to express it all out.
    I need an outside view on this confession. So I just recently started getting back into the groove of school, I started back in August but it takes time for me to adjust. Sadly I'm the kid thats potentially smart enough to sleep through class but still pass with A-, so I fell asleep in Physics for the past week and I start having dreams. Started to become recurring dreams of like married life, fantasies of your dream girl. I then started to realize that my dream girl actually resembled someone I knew. I met this girl named Chloe back in June and agreed she was cute but added her on fb and occassionally talked and hung out as friends with her group. I never thought of her as more than a friend. After these dreams, I realized she mirrors my "dream girl". She even started saying, "Thats because we think alike, Kyle". But then a really old crush she had just go out of a relationship and was with us at a local fair intown. They were totally on another and my friend Layla knew she was gonna be a rebound for him since he just got out of a year relationship. They claimed to be leaving to grab Taco Bell, Tanner hinted how it was obvious and made the makeout signal and she flipped him off for telling everyone. I felt crushed. I mean I don't have her number, since we both go to different schools. I also don't wanna ruin the friendship we have but these feelings seem to be hard to hide since the old crush on him has reformed. She also hasn't been the luckiest in relationships, Total jerks dating her for maybe two weeks tops, although she did break up with one of my best friends. I've never been interested into a girl through this method, apparently the subconscious method. I'm just curious to outside opinions from reading this situation.

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    Wow haven't been here for a while. Here's the story:

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    Sorry for the really long story.

    I can't understand any of this. The whole relationship was based on being clingy and being there for each other when things got really bad. I don't understand how in such a short period of time she can lose her feelings for me. After all we went through, after everything that happened, I don't understand how someone that was so into me and I was so into could want to break up so quickly. I feel like she has me all wrong. I'm not clingy, I just want to be there for her. She gave up really quickly and I don't know what to do. I sort of convinced her to wait and see and take it slow but honestly it doesn't look good right now. For three months we had something really special that I can't believe she'd want to throw away in a week.

    I had made up my mind even before any of this that I was leaving college this weekend and going home because I just didn't like being so far away from home on my own. How can I convince her to talk to me in person and at least take it day by day and see where things go. I feel like this is a horrible mistake. Something like that just doesn't go away like that. She's always been really confused but now I just don't know. She still wants to be friends but how can we just be friends if we care about each other so much. I care so much about her and I just want her back.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Needs a Deoxys View Post
    Wow haven't been here for a while. Here's the story:

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    Sorry for the really long story.

    I can't understand any of this. The whole relationship was based on being clingy and being there for each other when things got really bad. I don't understand how in such a short period of time she can lose her feelings for me. After all we went through, after everything that happened, I don't understand how someone that was so into me and I was so into could want to break up so quickly. I feel like she has me all wrong. I'm not clingy, I just want to be there for her. She gave up really quickly and I don't know what to do. I sort of convinced her to wait and see and take it slow but honestly it doesn't look good right now. For three months we had something really special that I can't believe she'd want to throw away in a week.

    I had made up my mind even before any of this that I was leaving college this weekend and going home because I just didn't like being so far away from home on my own. How can I convince her to talk to me in person and at least take it day by day and see where things go. I feel like this is a horrible mistake. Something like that just doesn't go away like that. She's always been really confused but now I just don't know. She still wants to be friends but how can we just be friends if we care about each other so much. I care so much about her and I just want her back.
    A few thoughts on your matter bud. First distance even though you tell yourself nothing is wrong with takes a serious and I mean serious tolls on relationships and feelings. Secondly it sounds like to me that maybe she is having trouble and just didn't wanna tell you because like she said you do seem a tad bit clingy. Not saying you are but telling a girl you always wanna be there for her and that you wanna be there and all that all the time makes a girl think you are clingy. They like it in moderate amounts but not all the time. Thirdly it seems to me that even though you two were a happy couple you made much better friends and I know those feelings aren't easy to push aside but friends maybe what you two should be because you seem more like friends anyway. Lastly, She may have feelings for the new guy because unlike you he is right there. The power of being able to actually see someone and being able to hug them and kiss them is a major thing in feelings and without that relationships almost never work. This is all from a guy who two months ago went through almost the same thing you are but not exactly. Feel free to PM me if you wanna talk



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    I'll make it simple for you guys. I'm starting college in two weeks, and I think I'm set. I just have to pack everything up. For those of you in college now: is there anything that you would definitely suggest bringing or getting? Even if I may have already gotten it, I'd appreciate the suggestions. Thanks!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Manly Blissey View Post
    I'll make it simple for you guys. I'm starting college in two weeks, and I think I'm set. I just have to pack everything up. For those of you in college now: is there anything that you would definitely suggest bringing or getting? Even if I may have already gotten it, I'd appreciate the suggestions. Thanks!
    Def bring something to do. College life is great for hanging out but when your alone in your room you should have something to do. Also biggest advice I can give on what to bring is an open mind. Dorm life is awesome don't get me wrong but there are so many different types of people you can meet that if your a closed mind person you may find yourself making someone angry without meaning to



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