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I used to be a person who was attracted to women on a purely physical basis, but the girl I have been with for the last few years, is the exact opposite of what I am physically attracted to. For me as I am getting older, it's all about the personality and what is inside. Does it sound cheesy? Definitely. But I think it is the sign of being a mature adult. My lady and I have few things in common, but we support each other and I know she has a great head on her shoulders.
I think for a lot of young people out there the key to a great relationship is realizing the amount of give and take involved...
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Tacking on something else: They can't do any sort of recreational drug. I really resent folks who do, I couldn't deal with a partner who did anything of that sort.
As Spongebob says it, they need to have some ''Psaaaazzzz'. I hate jerks. You know, the types of guys who are all buffed up and think they are all that.
Smoking and drugs are also bad, I don't want some nasty *** smoke breath.
Am I the only one who isn't looking for a relationship right now?
I mean, nobody really attracts me. I don't know why.
For the most part its just personality. Good sense of humor, generally being nice, and maybe a smidge of adventurous. Having similar interest helps.
That's not to say I'm above being superficial, but I wouldn't date someone just because I think that they're pretty.
EDIT: Forgot to say, Intelligence. That's plays a big role in my eyes.
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I don't care about looks. The most attractive guys are usually assholes. If he's not a good person at heart, I won't have an attraction at all.
She has to be somewhat what I think is pretty but most importantly she has to have a really good personality and understand my nerdy, goofy side.
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What attracts me to a girl is her personality. Of course I have to think she is cute too, but that doesn't matter to me at all if she doesn't have a good personality. Also, I am attracted to girls who I can easily talk to about anything and have an enjoyable time with.
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I haven't met "the one" yet, but I always picture her to be kind, intelligent, and have at least the slightest bit of gaming experience.
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- A love of video games.
- Not too girly. (i.e. not obsessed with fashion or soap operas)
- Somewhat athletic (ironic since I'm not athletic).
- Kind and intelligent.
Appearance is a very big factor, though. My favorite coloring for girls is dark hair and olive skin. I can't get enough of girls with the Mediterranean look. Redheads are okay too. As for blondes, I mostly prefer curly or wavy blondes. I usually don't like straight blondes (although they look great with braids) because like 80% of female celebrities look like that.
Unlike a lot of guys, I tend to prefer shorter girls - usually 5'3" or less. I'm huge - I'm 6'1" and a bit on the heavy side. But most of the women in my family are small, so I'm used to it.
Though to me...I always thought that tall women and short men were pretty adorable. Especially when the man is stocky and the lady is wispy. :)
I couple-watch a lot. Not bitter, giving-them-the-stink-eye watching, but watching interestedly and smiling and feeling really happy for them. I've had couples in restaurants actually ask me to stop smiling at them before. I can't help it! xD
You sound similar to my fiance in terms of your liking of short women. He is a solid six feet and ten inches, but I am five foot even! Nearly two feet of difference, imagine that. :P
He doesn't notice my height though. Everybody is short to him.
I hope no one thinks I'm racist for this, but I'm mostly attracted to girls of certain backgrounds. I tend to prefer either Italian or Hispanic girls the most (I'm mostly Italian myself). I also like Arab, Indian, Iranian, Armenian, and Greek girls. Sometimes black girls catch my eye as well. Basically, I tend to prefer Southern European or Middle Eastern. That explains my preference in hair color. I am aware that in many of these groups, blondes do pop up (in fact, one of my Sicilian great-grandfathers was blond and blue-eyed).
Eyes don't matter, though. I like all kinds.
I like girls who are silly and joke a lot. My 2 most hated things about a person are ego and being too serious. As far as physical things go i have a pretty wide range of likes.
Oh and uh...redheads.
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