Ideal features of a woman for me:
- Similar interests (cough cough pokemon)
- Similar taste in music
- Fairly athletic
- Just over average height
- Offensive sense of humour
- Fairly intelligent
- Nice ***, boobs etc
- Appreciates need for personal space, yet still is loving
- Good fashion sense (Limited make up)
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I don't know what it is but I find shorter girls with softer voices really attractive. But I guess I'll go into more detail
Shorter than me but not too short
Younger than me but not by too much
There's definitely some more but I don't feel like listing them.
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I dunno why, but when guys wear button up shirts that fit well with the sleeves rolled up to their elbows
come to my house.
Honestly? Not a clue. None of the people I've been with have had anything in common, besides the fact that they were all people I considered myself very close to and trusting of before pursuing a relationship with them. I've just been attracted to my closest friends, I guess, and feel awkward and uncomfortable with anyone else. Does this make me "demisexual"? Whatever, the man I'm with now is beautiful inside and out, I just like him.
Nice eyes and smile, good singing voice, kind and happy personality, smart, slightly taller than me,
I am thinking of someone specific here
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Honestly, I'm pretty basic, I think. I just want a girl with a sense of humor, is kind at heart(so she can be a little mean/sarcastic sometimes), and wouldn't go behind my back. An option thing I'd like is if she is fit, so I have someone to go on runs with XD
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In my opinion, people can tend to be really specific about all the things that they want in a girl or a guy, when honestly for me, i look for the exact opposite. I look for a girl who doesn't have certain characteristics, everything else I can get along with. Girls who are so self centered that they only give me eye contact to look at their own reflections is a bit....stupid. Also anyone that would ever throw anything precious to them away for the sake of another person may as well keep walking. I like those who like themselves, but not love themselves. I've been waiting too long to find a girl 'cuz I don't change who I am, and I expect her not to change either, and yea...I can be kind of straight forward and blunt....doesn't help much haha
I guess for standard attraction would be just looks but for more deep attraction then it's more related to there personality. A generally decent person will do (more or less).
Religion is a major factor for me, actually. Even if the girl matches every other preference of mine, I still couldn't marry her. I'm sorry if I sound like a jerk, but the belief that my beloved wife would go to hell when she died would drive me insane. Then there's the upraising of the children to consider - if my kids were raised as Christian, they would believe that their mother would be going to Hell when she died, which would be some kind of guilty-tripping awful (and would possibly strain family bonds); if they were raised in a different religion (or as atheists), then I'd feel awful because I'd think that they're going to Hell, too.
So, yeah. That's just the way how it is for me.
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I really like a girl that is hot and smart at the same time.
Looks and Personality are the big ones. If you can't impress me by being nice than you can't inpress my family and parents either
Kind, compassionate, honest, trustworthy, dedicated.
Funny/sense of humor
Down to earth, laid back, open minded
Strong, independent, self-confident, capable of taking care of themselves, but also having a sensitive side. (We don't need each other, but we WANT each other. <3)
Not afraid to express themselves and be who they are. (whether it be mentally, appearance wise, or both, I don;t care.)
And of course I'd prefer for us to have similar interests. video games, hanging out, music...
Appearance: (all optional, really but my preferences)
Average height to tall
I actually don't care if they are toned, athletic, chubby, curvy, average, etc. I appreciate all of those for what they are to an extent. (some can be overdone, though.) Though I do have a thing for physically strong people.
Hair length doesn't matter, but I prefer black, red, brown and exotic, unnatural colors, and sometimes blonde
Eyes, facial features: Don't really care, but I would have to get into extreme detail to point out my prefs. there.
I like Shy girls or carefree ones. I want to be able to have a conversation about something we both have in common all the time, and we actually like each other.
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girls who are Christians and smart and pretty
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A girl that:
*lets me have some free time instead of forcing me to hang out with her every second possible
*doesn't freak out if I hang out with people that smoke weed
*doesn't freak out if I drink
*is a good driver
*isn't boring to talk to
*doesn't talk about stupid stuff nobody cares about
*understands that I have my own life and my own interests
*doesn't make me pay for every single f*cking thing
I like guys who are nice, thus not a total idiot.
...I have a nice senior boyfriend~
...I think she means senior as in "older", or as in high school/college senior. Haha, I've joked about the latter myself, saying something like "I'm a senior, can I have a discount?" (As in college senior... *chuckle*). Of course, that's still a nice joke.
Well, going beyond the usual (I would almost say universal) qualities of nice, respectful, considerate, etc... I find myself being really attracted to a guy whose spiritual beliefs are very similar to mine, moreso than anything else. There's just something about being on a similar philosophical level about things that just really makes me happy. Of course, the problem is that very few people my age have spiritual beliefs similar to mine. The vast majority of them are either not very spiritual at all (the case with my current boyfriend) or follow a religion that I don't. Since I am a very spiritual person myself, I always see this as a sort of barrier in a relationship.
Similarly, and I know this sounds wrong, but no matter how pure of heart a guy may be, if he is far less intelligent than I am, it's a problem. I know this from experience; my first boyfriend was possibly the nicest and sweetest guy I've ever met, but he wasn't exactly the brightest. This actually led to communication barriers between us; he often had a hard time understanding me and what I was talking about, and we always seemed to be on completely different levels of understanding on most conversation topics. This, in addition to the fact that he wasn't all that good-looking either, outweighed the sympathy I had for him and dampened any passion I had about the relationship.
I am also really attracted to guys who are more of the quiet and sensitive type, as opposed to the tough or outgoing type. I can handle a little of extroversion in a guy, but not to the point where it completely masks their more introverted side. I guess this makes sense, as I've seen relationships between an extrovert and an introvert (my own now-divorced parents being one example) end badly or become challenging in the least. I guess given these above factors, the most important thing to me is that he's on a similar wavelength as me on most things. And by that I don't mean the same interests and hobbies; I just mean their general nature. You know, psychology and whatnot.
Appearance-wise, I prefer thinner and more nerdy-looking guys, or ones with an almost effeminate feel to them (the latter goes for their personality as well). The latter explains why I often become attracted to guys who turn out to be gay. Long hair is also a huge turn-on for me; in fact, I've expressed dismay at a couple of long-haired guys I knew who cut their hair short several months after I met them. I also like it when a guy has a good fashion sense, which apparently is rare in today's world.
Taking all of the above into account, I'd probably be strongly attracted to hippies. XD