Originally Posted by The Requiem
You see a cute person, but you say how wonderful of a personality they have. It doesn't matter that you actually don't know the person well enough to make generalization about the person personality. Why? Because its easier to just make up good traits about the person based off of the idealized version of that that you created out of your own infatuation.
This really is one of those societal memes that needs to be dialed down a few notches.
Last edited by Zazie; 11th April 2012 at 6:13 PM.
Confidence is a biggie. It really irritates me when the person I'm with is constantly worrying about screwing up. It's kind of flattering at first, but it quickly turns annoying. The time spent away from someone you like matters just as much as the time you spend with them, and when the other person is constantly making contact and always trying to bridge the healthy gaps because they're not confident enough in themselves or in the other person's trust, it bogs everything down.
So, confidence is extremely attractive for me.
To get on a less personal level, a decent body ain't bad.
Don't come off as pretentious with unnecessary long posts.
For example, I can be friendly and civil, but once I find out the other person has different interest, I find it difficult to maintain that relationship, haha.
I don't even know....
I need to think about this once I am on break... need time to think carefully about this matter
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Tall, tanned, red hair, six-pack. Yeah. That
But if I should remain realistic, I would say looks don't matter. It matters a little, but not that much.
And a great personality, of course. (And I'll stick with the tall part)
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I am also insainly attracted to guys with Glasses, by some reason
I really don't care as long as she doesn't end every sentence as if she's asking a question? other than that it's all good.
I like protective, sweet, funny, and romantic guys. Looks matter a little, but it's their personality that truly matters. If a guy has a great personality and is hot, their hotness would only be a bonus. I wouldn't date a guy just because he has a six pack, the guy could be a complete jerk. I don't like guys with a lot of tattoos, guys who smoke, or guys who swear a lot.
And you guys are totally bullshitting yourselves if you say looks aren't a part of what attracts you.
But in all seriousness, intelligence is a must. Someone who is a good orator and has the ability to cheer people up. Obviously I must find them physically attractive as well.
For me it is important for a girl to have a good personality. Looks are important too, but not the most important. Intelligence is important too, but they don't need to be extremely intelligent, just enough to have an intelligent conversation with. I also like girls that are pretty and "real" more than extremely hot Barbie-like girls. Also, if she plays video games then that’s a plus.
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