A social, smart, and beautiful girl is ideal. Lucky for me there are several of those in both my schools.
I used to liek mudkipz, then I took an arrow in the knee. However the arrow turned out to be a seaking. It yelled "F*** yeah" so I screamed "FUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!". The seaking's face became that of a troll while mine became forever alone. The situation was super effective.
Although I can initially be attracted by looks it takes a certain personality for me to maintain interest. I like people who are smart and empathetic with a sense of ethics similar to my own.
Looks, humour, spontaneity, fun, and loyal.
I've moved on from my horrible racial fetish and find more of the girl's personality to be attractive. Another thing I rule in that is equal to personality (IMO) is health. 'Do they take care of their body (as in weight) and face (do they share my loathing for facial acne)?' is one of the questions that I rule in.
I think it's slightly racist.Also i've wondered with race, does not wanting to date a certain race make you racist? For instance say i don't want to date someone with ginger hair, i still look at them equally they just have a certain feature i find unattractive - does the same apply with race?
Well it could just be a fetish you have for blondes or whatever but if you said "I won't date blacks/gingers/etc just because of their appearance regardless of their personality" it'd be shallow at least but it does come off as slightly racist to me. I'm sure others would disagree though.care to elaborate?
I find Caucasian to be the most attractive look. Preferably blond and not really annoying. I know one of those and then I remember that I spend most of my time playing Pokemon or Jazz guitar.
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Next you'll tell me I hate all fat people if I don't want to date a fat woman. Or any quality that I have a tendency to avoid meaning that I express a hatred for that specific quality. Because that's what the extremity of racism implies. Hatred.
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I see what the gist of what you are talking about though.
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But I know what you mean. "I wouldn't date a fat/black/white/ginger/stupid etc. person" is obviously not the same thing as "I find ' ' features unattractive, but I will date them if I am otherwise attracted to them".
Shallow is really just a broad form of racism. A rose by any other name would be as full as much ****.
Edit: And racism doesn't just mean acting like Hitler or a skinhead. If you discriminate a person solely because race when it has nothing to do with their personality, I consider that racist under any circumstances.
The racial fetish wasn't even that bad. Then you lead into say "health" and I was like, okay, that's respectable. Then, however, you followed up with "'Do they take care of their body (as in weight) and face (do they share my loathing for facial acne)?'" and it just went straight back to shallowness.
I agree that health and hygiene are very important, but weight and acne are two things that have far too many variables to simply attack like that. Yes, health is a big factor - but hereditary traits and hormones have just as much to do with weight and acne as personal health and hygiene.
Example: I am a Nazi in terms or washing my face and keeping clean, but due to my 19 year-old, male hormones, acne still comes and strikes me more often than I'd like.
I'm actually underweight, myself, but some people who are overweight have a hard time to lose weight due to genetics.
Also, the following arguments with regard to this aren't very secure, either.
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What I find attractive in girls? The same personality as me,someone who I could relate to,and being innocuous.
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It's hard to define, the best way I can describe it is "girls who simply attract me". I don't hang around with a list of traits I like in a girl and keep checking them everytime I cross paths with a girl. Independently of looks or personality, they either attract me or not, or either I learn to like them or not - there's just no label to me.