What attracts you to guys/girls?

[Zwitter™]

Shallow is really just a broad form of racism. A rose by any other name would be as full as much ****.

Edit: And racism doesn't just mean acting like Hitler or a skinhead. If you discriminate a person solely because race when it has nothing to do with their personality, I consider that racist under any circumstances.

Quick Question. A friend of mine (white male) sleeps solely with black women. Does that make him racist?

[Zevn]

Quick Question. A friend of mine (white male) sleeps solely with black women. Does that make him racist?

He got jungle fevah.

I had it for a while, it's normal(not racist).

[Zwitter™]

He got jungle fevah.

I had it for a while, it's normal.

I know. He got mugged and lost it. I was trying to ascertain how GhostAnime viewed this considering the last posts

[DarkGengar]

What I find attractive in girls? The same personality as me,someone who I could relate to,and being innocuous.

[Mav-san]

It's hard to define, the best way I can describe it is "girls who simply attract me". I don't hang around with a list of traits I like in a girl and keep checking them everytime I cross paths with a girl. Independently of looks or personality, they either attract me or not, or either I learn to like them or not - there's just no label to me.

[Aurea]

Attractive in guys? Well, they need to have a nice smile, and nice eyes. They also need to be taller than me, I'm not attracted to guys who are smaller than me.

But mainly they have to have a friendly personality and be interested in the same things as me....
..... And they have to love Monty Python.

[Zevn]

I like fit, intellectual, ambitious, and independent girls with a corny sense of humor.

[GhostAnime]

Quick Question. A friend of mine (white male) sleeps solely with black women. Does that make him racist?

If you discriminate a person solely because race when it has nothing to do with their personality

What race you are doesn't come into the equation. It's all act.

[Valoo.]

I really don't see how you can be racist by sleeping solely with people of one skin colour. Shallow, maybe, but certainly not racist. It's just your attraction, really, and you can't help having preferences. You're not racist, you're just not attracted. It's like calling someone sexist for sleeping with only one sex.

[Danny1221]

Personality and a good sense of humor, if they can make me smile they certainly are doing a good job. I have a certain look like a like but have trouble describing it. They have to dress decent to and be reasonable intelligent.

[Cometstarlight]

Let's see...what attracts me to a guy? Never really thought about before since I've never dated anyone lol

Let's see, an established relationship with Christ (Christian) is a must, I would like for him to be at least a bit physically attractive, nice, a good sense of humor or something like that. lol

[Zevn]

Let's see, an established relationship with Christ (Christian) is a must, I would like for him to be at least a bit physically attractive, nice, a good sense of humor or something like that. lol

As a Godless heathen who has dated many Christian girls I find this offensive.

[GhostAnime]

I really don't see how you can be racist by sleeping solely with people of one skin colour. Shallow, maybe, but certainly not racist. It's just your attraction, really, and you can't help having preferences. You're not racist, you're just not attracted. It's like calling someone sexist for sleeping with only one sex.

Not comparable. "Race" isn't a sexuality, and gender attraction has an actual tangible science to it. There is no biological gene that says "You can't like these millions of people because their skin color is slightly darker."

Besides, not all people even share the same physical traits within said races. Call it what you will; racist or shallow, it's ********.

[Sidewinder]

As a Godless heathen who has dated many Christian girls I find this offensive.

Hah

I really don't see how you can be racist by sleeping solely with people of one skin colour. Shallow, maybe, but certainly not racist. It's just your attraction, really, and you can't help having preferences. You're not racist, you're just not attracted. It's like calling someone sexist for sleeping with only one sex.

Well, I agree with most of that, as sleeping with a different race doesnt make you rascist, however I don't think that it makes you shallow at all. If your preference is only to a different race because you solely find that race attractive, then its not shallow, its just what you like

[GhostAnime]

How do you define shallow then?

[Sidewinder]

I define it as superficial

However, the term 'shallow' does not apply to this conversation. If I go out and buy a green rubber ducky instead of a blue one, I do it because I like the color green. It's not that I have anything against blue at all, I just prefer green

[Zwitter™]

Well, I agree with most of that, as sleeping with a different race doesnt make you rascist, however I don't think that it makes you shallow at all. If your preference is only to a different race because you solely find that race attractive, then its not shallow, its just what you like

I agree. It's not shallow and it certainly isn't racist.

It's like having a preference to brunettes or someone with blue eyes. If you find, say a skin colour or even a facial shape you like that is attributed to a certain race then you are more likely to go for partners from that race.

GhostAnime do you go up to same race couples and shout RACIST at them? I don't really see what the problem is...

[GhostAnime]

I define it as superficial

How the heck is race not superficial? >_>

It's like having a preference to brunettes or someone with blue eyes. If you find, say a skin colour or even a facial shape you like that is attributed to a certain race then you are more likely to go for partners from that race.

But this isn't what we're talking about.

We're talking about people who purposely exclude for the sole purpose of race regardless of anything else. Not preferences.

GhostAnime do you go up to same race couples and shout RACIST at them? I don't really see what the problem is...

I would really wish you re-read my stance 100 times before reciting it back to me.

[Flappy]

How sexy a girl looks, just basically the body. But I don't really like butter faces so I guess face too.

[Zwitter™]

I've moved on from my horrible racial fetish and find more of the girl's personality to be attractive.

As you can see here, he refered to it as a Racial fetish, as in he liked a certain race over others for a certain reason. He didn't explain. That's okay.

Shallow is really just a broad form of racism. A rose by any other name would be as full as much ****.

Edit: And racism doesn't just mean acting like Hitler or a skinhead. If you discriminate a person solely because race when it has nothing to do with their personality, I consider that racist under any circumstances.

Here you join in the discussion where you say that discriminating a person solely because of race is racist. I agree, that is racist. Just having a greater attraction to a certain race isn't racist. It's an aspect that you find attractive. No where, as far as i can remember has anyone actually stated that they dislike a certain race, as again I would agree that that would be racist.

I think I have you worked out now GhostAnime and I think we just ended up arguing over different things thinking it was the same. Apologies for the earlier comment.