QwilfishBoss, the newbie lounge is really just a place for 1) New members to introduce themselves and other people to greet and welcome them and 2) for asking for help with I think the site in general (it says it underneath the forum names in the main forum page). Also, not to be rude (talking to the staff by that, not you qwilfish), but while some staff do care to help you as much as they can, others (who may not see or care to note the difference between a member making a mistake or being lazy with where they post) just want to get to the point and fix the problem you "caused" without getting much into it. How about pm'ng me the kind of things you were trying to post and I'll tell you where you should go to post them, ok? :-)
I have 2 Friend codes I use about equally. One is 4055-3723-1345 and the other is 0576 3520 6954. I'll try to mention which one to look for when needed, if I don't then ask.
I try to train pokemon with the best natures and IVs, but generally don't breed for IVs and occasionally use a pokemon that could have a better nature out of laziness (on the other hand I have reset or recaught the same species 20+ times to get the best nature and decent IVs sometimes). I somewhat do EV training, but don't calculate it out so it's perfect, just rely on the chart in the super training thing.