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    Quote Originally Posted by moot View Post
    try ones that people actually use (like eharmony and okcupid and stuff) lol
    Been there done that, I feel pathetic at this point lol. So that's why I'm just chillin. I WANT to have someone, but I won't die if I don't find her soon.

    In the end, making friends is awesome for the time being.

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    Well I have had love on a forum site I used a long time ago with two different guys as well as Habbo Hotel. I am not going to talk about the guy from Habbo to much cuz he was really messed up and a reall ***hole but he lived two hours away from me and after the break up we stopped talking until Fall 2013 cuz he moved to the city that's outside of the town I go to college in and he wanted to hookup with me but I had no interested at all. He was the second guy I dated.

    The first guy was the first guy I truly ever loved at the time I had just turned 18 and he was 16 but almost 17 and he lived in Florida. After a week of dating his homophonic father put a stop to it but after a few weeks with out talking we started talking again and dated again for two months until his dad found out again and this time he said he would get disowned if he did not stop talking to me and I haven't heard from him since.

    The third guy I dated online lived in Pennsylvania and we where good friends and it just became a relationship but it only lasted a few weeks because I couldn't handle the distance and there was a lot of stuff going on in his life that just being friends was for the best and since then he as sadly passed away.

    I had one other online relationship that was from a dating site the guy lived six hours away from me and we did meet in person once but did not go as planed cuz his friends tagged along so they could be dropped off in Toronto before he came to see me and they caused a lot of problems for him to get here and after he did get here they texted him to come back cuz they needed him to take them somewhere and after that we started fighting a lot cuz he gave into his friends and never lived up to what he promised me and we spent a month planning to spend 3 days together and we ended up only spending an hour together thanks to his friends.

    Trying to find another gay guy is hard so using dating sites is something I do and I now have a rule that the farthest someone can live away from me is 2 hours. Would I date someone off here probably not even though this site is full of Pokémon fans and my dream guy is someone who is as big of a Pokémon fan as me but I feel this site is for making friends only.

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    alright so can anyone say they've recently found love in these forums? Just curious

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    Not me, I've never had a girlfriend . I've been a loner for the past 13 years.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Fossildude747 View Post
    Not me, I've never had a girlfriend . I've been a loner for the past 13 years.
    Dang, but how old are you? I'm on my 20s and I've been single for almost 2yrs and it sucks, I can't imagine 13yrs unless of course you're just a teen, then don't sweat it for now lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fossildude747 View Post
    Not me, I've never had a girlfriend . I've been a loner for the past 13 years.
    I have to admit, that is a bit sad...
    But it will eventually come, it always does.

    Aside from that, i have yet to hear of a relationship that starts online and lasts more than a year.

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    Yea I am just a teen. Actually my family is shorter than usual, so girls actually think I'm cute since I am small, and I only asked out one girl, who rejected me because she had a boyfriend and I didn't know. So I guess it's a bit less sad when those facts are to consider.


    Ok if you want to battle me I will most likely do battle spot rules, but I will do smogon too sometimes. I don't hate smogon it' just that I like battle spot rules better and play them a lot more. But every once in a while I might battle with smogon rules.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fossildude747 View Post
    Yea I am just a teen. Actually my family is shorter than usual, so girls actually think I'm cute since I am small, and I only asked out one girl, who rejected me because she had a boyfriend and I didn't know. So I guess it's a bit less sad when those facts are to consider.
    If that so then there is nothing to really worry about. Relationships this early are fun but in most scenarios don't go that far, and aren't really important.
    It is until one is in their late 20's that people start worrying about it, there are things more important that dating before this age.

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    Yea, guess you are right. And I can see why people in 20's worry, living alone with no one to talk to when you get home, just you (and possibly pets) in a house would creep me out.


    Ok if you want to battle me I will most likely do battle spot rules, but I will do smogon too sometimes. I don't hate smogon it' just that I like battle spot rules better and play them a lot more. But every once in a while I might battle with smogon rules.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fossildude747 View Post
    Yea, guess you are right. And I can see why people in 20's worry, living alone with no one to talk to when you get home, just you (and possibly pets) in a house would creep me out.
    yeah being 21 and single really does suck and I am a bit of a hopeless romantic as well so that doesn't help This last year as been hard on me because I went through cancer. I am all better now and getting my life back together I just got re-hired at a grocery store I worked at 2 years ago. I really want to date someone but I am finding telling guys I meet that I am a cancer survivor is a bit of a turn off but it's who I am now and I feel I should be 100% honest about myself

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fossildude747 View Post
    Yea, guess you are right. And I can see why people in 20's worry, living alone with no one to talk to when you get home, just you (and possibly pets) in a house would creep me out.
    Good one dude you hit the nail on the head. That's pretty much how I live minus the pets...I don't like pets.

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    Like, internet dating?
    Either way, I've never been in a relationship with someone. Doesn't appeal to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessAbsol View Post
    Like, internet dating?
    Either way, I've never been in a relationship with someone. Doesn't appeal to me.
    I so wish I could be like that too, and most of the time I like being left alone anyway, yet there are those times I just feel like I need someone even for a few minutes cuz it gets lonely.

    Don't you ever feel like that?

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    Just as a reminder this isn't the "OH GOD I'M SO LONELY" thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sogeking View Post
    Just as a reminder this isn't the "OH GOD I'M SO LONELY" thread.
    It's not...my bad?
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    I remember way back when there was a member who created a shipping partnership with me. At the time I wasn't really aware of what it entailed, but yeah. We liked eachother but never went further than that. Haven't spoken to her for years now...
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    Honestly, I can't picture myself having romantic affections for anybody on this website only because of geographical location differences and age of the person. Not to say it's a bad thing, if anything: I encourage unity, I just personally can't see myself doing it.
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    I wish I never met any guys before my fiance, but I did sadly. Hes the most amazing guy ive ever known in my life.

    I dated people on wolfhome and pof but never met them in person

    Then I met someone on facebook but he turned out to be fugly irl.

    Then I met a guy and just dated him cause I thought I wouldnt find anyone better. I hated him. Okay I hated all my exes and found non attractive.

    I just wish I coukd take it all back.

    But yes, its silly when people internet date.

    Like do what I did, wait for a hot guy to come up to you in starbucks, hand you a receipt with a note on it, then watch him run away in pure nervousness

    97% of online relationships dont work out.

    Also, how would you know if theyre cheating on you or not? Like its a waste of time. Find someone real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lion Demon View Post
    Honestly, I can't picture myself having romantic affections for anybody on this website only because of geographical location differences and age of the person. Not to say it's a bad thing, if anything: I encourage unity, I just personally can't see myself doing it.
    Louisiana to Texas didn't sound that long to me....

    I was terribly wrong.

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    Don't believe in virtual relationships. What's the use if you can't meet them irl so I don't even try and another reason is because I already have a girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryuken View Post
    Aside from that, i have yet to hear of a relationship that starts online and lasts more than a year.
    Hey. So, while it wasn't on Serebii, I feel like I should reply to this.

    I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl I met on a Keroro/Sgt Frog forum. I'm in the UK, while she's in the US. We've been dating for three years now, this also includes meeting up in person twice (If it was not for unemployment and things getting in the way, this number would be higher). with plans for her visiting this November. It's a possibility that one of us will be moving to the other person's place probably by next year at the earliest. I should also point out that there was a three year period prior to the relationship where we were just friends.

    I know there's a vast majority of online relationships that start and end at the blink of an eye, but if both sides put in 100% to make it work, then it will work.

    That's all I wanted to say, really.
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    To all the lonely ones out there, I can relate. But just hear me out: Everyone takes different paths in life. Everyone's different, period. While it's true, we all have a basic need to be connected to someone, it isn't true that there is a timer on when this person must enter your life. Relationships end, personal careers or illnesses get in the way. Or maybe you're not ready, not mature enough. You might stumble along in your early twenties, going on a few dates but never finding anything that sticks. You might feel terrible on valentine's day, or around your friends when they talk about their partners. You'll feel lonely, but what you need to remember, is that so long as you are yourself, and so long as you keep moving forward in life and doing what you love, love will find YOU. You might think you're alone in how you feel, or that no one understands. But that's nonsense, and deep down, you know it. Society seems to place a massive pressure on you to be in constant relationships, but just be yourself. I never dated in my teens, never cared. Now I'm with someone I met through university. My uncle had never been on a single date until he was 27, and he's been married to the first woman he's been with for 26 years. My dad was 23 before he met my mom. Some people take even longer to meet the RIGHT person, look at all of the divorces, all the messy breakups. You don't need to feel like you're supposed to rush into a relationship only to have it doomed from the start, you need to just focus on growing and socializing, and in time it'll become clear. You're not alone, and you never will be. You have friends, and a world, while imperfect, that DOES understand you. Just remember that the next time you feel empty inside because you're single. Just remember how lucky you are and how amazing the rest of your life can be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunar-Kuto View Post
    Hey. So, while it wasn't on Serebii, I feel like I should reply to this.

    I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl I met on a Keroro/Sgt Frog forum. I'm in the UK, while she's in the US. We've been dating for three years now, this also includes meeting up in person twice (If it was not for unemployment and things getting in the way, this number would be higher). with plans for her visiting this November. It's a possibility that one of us will be moving to the other person's place probably by next year at the earliest. I should also point out that there was a three year period prior to the relationship where we were just friends.

    I know there's a vast majority of online relationships that start and end at the blink of an eye, but if both sides put in 100% to make it work, then it will work.

    That's all I wanted to say, really.
    Agreed with this totally. I know a couple who I used to play City of Heroes with. They met through the game. One was from Canada, and the other the US. They eventually met in person, fell in love, got married, and are still together today. It's not the conventional (whatever that means in 2014) way to do it maybe, but it can certainly work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunkern View Post
    I remember way back when there was a member who created a shipping partnership with me. At the time I wasn't really aware of what it entailed, but yeah. We liked eachother but never went further than that. Haven't spoken to her for years now...
    I believe that would be me actually. I'd totally forgotten about that! I was 16 I think and didn't have much experience with boys.

    Even OKCupid kind of sucks. I went on loads of dates from there (it's easy to find a geeky guy on that site if that's your type) but I ended up with a lot of boring dates, a few horror stories, and one memorable occasion where someone asked me if I was interested in a drug fueled threesome with him and his girlfriend. I ended up finally meeting my actual boyfriend through mutual friends, so the site was kind of a wash for me. I've known people who had luck with it though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hitchslapmon View Post
    To all the lonely ones out there, I can relate. But just hear me out: Everyone takes different paths in life. Everyone's different, period. While it's true, we all have a basic need to be connected to someone, it isn't true that there is a timer on when this person must enter your life. Relationships end, personal careers or illnesses get in the way. Or maybe you're not ready, not mature enough. You might stumble along in your early twenties, going on a few dates but never finding anything that sticks. You might feel terrible on valentine's day, or around your friends when they talk about their partners. You'll feel lonely, but what you need to remember, is that so long as you are yourself, and so long as you keep moving forward in life and doing what you love, love will find YOU. You might think you're alone in how you feel, or that no one understands. But that's nonsense, and deep down, you know it. Society seems to place a massive pressure on you to be in constant relationships, but just be yourself. I never dated in my teens, never cared. Now I'm with someone I met through university. My uncle had never been on a single date until he was 27, and he's been married to the first woman he's been with for 26 years. My dad was 23 before he met my mom. Some people take even longer to meet the RIGHT person, look at all of the divorces, all the messy breakups. You don't need to feel like you're supposed to rush into a relationship only to have it doomed from the start, you need to just focus on growing and socializing, and in time it'll become clear. You're not alone, and you never will be. You have friends, and a world, while imperfect, that DOES understand you. Just remember that the next time you feel empty inside because you're single. Just remember how lucky you are and how amazing the rest of your life can be.
    Wise words dude. I am "old" and let me tell you I made 5 mistakes during my younger years but they all helped me to get the right person later in life.
    My advise is to enjoy life while you guys are still young, and if you find someone interesting here on in any other online place, please be careful and think "in cold blood" what are the real possibilities to continue the relationship. Long distance relationships are hard to handle but if they are successful they will bring you a good result.
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